At my 15-day record, but this time I am here without my typical chaffing. I miss erections the most! Let's see how long she goes...
Thanks, Allen! I appreciate your words of wisdom and encouragement. As I posted a couple of updates ago: "This is harder than I thought..." (Double entendre intended.)
Keep your head up and just move forward. You know her the best. Try a little romance, see if it can get under her skin. Being apart for so long probably changed a lot of feelings. Almost like starting over. Turn up the romance, go back to the beginning!
Great idea! She's under a metric F'-ton of stress, which makes me feel like an ass for having needs of my own - but we're always balls-to-the-wall, and we're not getting any younger. Seems some more flowers and a latte may be in order, despite the ones from Mom's Day still being pretty.
He's Free! (After a 2-week personal best!) A bit of ring-burn, but have to clear security tomorrow. Next: 3-weeks! (Or whatever she wants.)
Try a resin cage like the HT v3 nano or nub knock offs when you need to pass security. We have metal detectors at work so I have to rotate, metal on the weekends and resin during the week. The small brass lock passes through ours and it squawks over my very small belt buckle. Good luck with the extended lock-up!
@Rectrix - Not yet. I had to clear security for some meetings at another business, and my wife and I will be converging on a 3rd city, on separate business trips. She has the book. I'm not asking. I will have a cage ready, in case she wants to talk about it.
@Sissy_Denise - Thanks for the suggestion, I am right there with you. I bought an HTv2 "small" knockoff. I had to do a bit of sanding, had plenty of room, but the joint where the two pieces fit together gets wobbly when the cage gets warm. If this whole chastity thing takes off, I will invest in a genuine v3 Nano, as I travel quite a bit.
Locked! 2 O's for her, no O's for me in the last 12-days, and now there's no chance of one for as long as I can stay locked. Excited!
9-days, and out. Raw spot where the tube, my "tube" and my balls intersect. 5-days last time. 10-days my best. "long-term" is a dream...
Locked (again.) I only made 5-days last time, so here we go again. Mid-month travel covered by having an HT knockoff on the way.
Unlocked, due to chafing. Four measly days. After healing, I will try and try again, until I can forget that it's on...
Hey I feel you on the chaffing man that “medical grade silicone” left me with an abrasion for a fucking year and a half. CB all the way. Different brands/materials affect everyone differently.
Failed. I could not live in the super-compact cheese-grater. Good fantasy; questionable practicality.
Yes, yes it is. I managed 10-days in cage #4, which is really open. I've reverted to #2 for this stint, with a grommet in the "cheese grater" hole in the end, to prevent pinching the most sensitive spot. I have 12-days until I have to get on a plane again, so we'll see how it holds up. This sucker is tiny!
Apparently 10-days is a sufficient amount of time to forget that unlocked males can pee standing up...
Unlocked: 10-days 24x7. Personal best! (So far.) Wanted to check the lil' guy out. Nothing some lotion & soft pair of panties won't heal.
Locked. Could have gone for 3-weeks, but had to unlock & let the ring chafing heal. Did a little gardening, too. 10-days would be a record.