Some wives find the verbal teasing a challenge, especially when half asleep from a lovely massage with no intention of playing with you tonight. I won't quite be at the begging stage but I'm horny and enjoying the moment thinking... And then saying "How much longer do you think I'm gonna be locked?" etc etc...but she's too relaxed to answer...Grrr! I noticed tonight that if, whilst half asleep I ask about the massage and where to massage next followed immediately by the above and got a lovely... "Mmmmm...Forever"... "As long as I get to share in your's my love" ....She was asleep by then. How much do you self-tease? I would like more, but she's busy and I completely understand that it isn't on her mind so self teasing is a substitute. Captions encourage the right mindset. It helps me maintain the illusion. It's all about perspective and perception. Just saying that if you struggle with that drop when you're feeling ignored.... Then find a way to be ok with that. It isn't your partner's responsibility to get you through the first few days before it really kicks in. That's on you. Self teasing your way through to that glorious time when her slightest touch electrifies you to your core.
i self tease a lot, mostly by watching or reading porn (specially female domination, chastity or sissy porn). This keeps me on edge without pushing Goddess into something She isn’t in the mood for.
Constantly, to be honest. Without a steady stream of teasing, chastity cages just become an annoyance.
I do as well, as pushing her to “have” to do it would def make her less into it. Often I use the Fleshlite Quickshot….if fits the cage and she has used it on me too.
I self tease a lot, too. It keeps it off her plate, and one thing she's attracted to is the fact she doesn't "have" to do anything to me if she doesn't want to. For the rest of you in the same boat - anyone have anything unusual or different on how they do it? I, for one, have become a big fan of "Lovense" vibrators, and lovenselife.com for anonymous controllers.