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Hey everyone, I don’t know if this has been covered, but here goes. I have been doing TRT due to medical needs and have found that my scrotum has become and remains quite tight. This has made wearing ball trapping devices difficult. Has anyone had any experience with this and have a solution? I...

I was about to buy a cage from Cherry keeper (via Shapeways), thankfully I wasn't able to do it before shapeways filed for bankruptcy. This also means I don't have the cage I wanted. I've tried a bunch of knockoffs from aliexpress and found that the Cherry keeper ones suit me best but they...

Hello Mansion, as of today I'm using a cobra knockoff and besides having some pinching problems, it's really great. But now I'm looking for something metal for more long term, I have seen the one in the photo, but my question is, can you pee normally? or is it uncomfortable?

New to CM, long time interests in exploring chastity. This past weekend, I admitted my curiosity to my wife. I was thrilled that she didn’t shot the idea down, and think I’m a freak. I like the aesthetic of metal, but I think it might be overwhelming in the beginning for both her and also...

Hello CM community! My KH and I are going to our first lifestyle club tomorrow, and the theme is fetish night. We are both fairly new to chastity (infrequent lockups past couples years) but my KH plans to keep me locked the whole time. She voiced a few thoughts on what we could end up doing but...

So someone in a chastity/denial themed discord server I’m in recently found this belt on ebay: https://www.ebay.com/itm/315268395039 A few similar belts were also found. And we’ve all been debating if it seems worth a shot. Two major obstacles with full belts is, as we all know, the price and...

So I was talking with my KH and she said that she likes that I am horny and I’m nicer now. I was masterbateing a lot before being caged 1-2 times everyday so I tend to not be super horny or interested around her at night or some mornings. We also have a 18 month old so it makes it a bit harder...

First of all hello to everyone. It might become a long wall of text but i am genuinely seeking answers and help. I have been intrested into chastity for a long time, bought one couple years ago some cheap knock off (white/transparent silicon) however hated the design and had sliping balls with...

Hi, BAWR offers, like many products, different kind of base-rings. I'd like to know the pro and cons of these 2 ring types: 1. normal round ring 2. round flat ring Both types above are perfectly cricle shaped. I'd love to hear your experiences! Thank you! Btw: I'm not looking for an...

I’ve seen a number of cages that come with a harness/strap/belt which wraps around the waist to add support. I read from another post on here a while ago that said such a thing could be used to make your device a little more “inescapable” if it’s a non stretch material, holds the cage close and...

I’m just at the start of my chastity journey and am eager to meet people whom I can finally discuss my experiences and observations and share tips. From a cursory look at the site it appears to skew heavily towards Female-led relationships. So to be transparent, I’m a gay white man being...

Hello fellow Kinksters! My goddess and I have been having fun in Chastity for about 2 years now, but recently I've discovered I really like humiliation after reading a guide to humiliation in Chastity. My Goddess and I are going to have a long talk about what they are comfortable with and what...

Hiya, looking for some input, advice/suggestions and general pointers in the right direction. I am a pretty decent tig welder and after ordering a couple various steel customs I decided I just want to make my own... My two biggest things. How on earth would I create the "stealth lock" holding...

Hi All, I've made an account on here out of concern and hoping someone can help/had similar experience. So I'm locked in a PA trapped chastity device, it's quite tight and snug. I was having a poke around today and think my piercing hole has stretched on one side. And if it has, I have barely...

I’m looking for any members with advice of their own. Or any websites with resources pertaining to feminization, dressing, being feminine, and dressing good enough to pass.

I was looking through NeoSteel belts and noticed you could get a hip model or waist model. I think I like the appearance of a waist model, that being said, has anyone tried both? Which is more comfortable in your opinion? Are there pros and cons for both?

It’s probably a long shot, but I was wondering if anyone has tried both a My-Steel Transformation belt, and a NeoSteel SheMale belt? Preferably total belts with a band instead of a chain or cable. How do they compare with each other?

Before I bury the lead, I’ll preface that I bought a full belt from Lovegasm called the “Back Pocket Rocket Male Chastity Belt” for about $120, and as of right now, I’m not overly pleased with it. But I suppose I got what I paid for. I’m not sure where to go from here. For a long while now I’ve...

I wanted to start a discussion about what levels of trust you have with your keyholders. I, until recently have not thought about keeping an emergency key. I have trusted my keyholder for a long time with control of both keys and she has never given me any cause to doubt that trust. Having...

Never posted an intro but have been reading a lot. Hello everyone! I brought chastity up to my wife because I’m into BDSM and thought it would be fun. I’m defiantly submissive but not in a cross dressing or sissy kind of way. I just really like bondage and giving someone else control. She has...