cheating

I have had a interesting life of sex. Some bad but mostly good. Now that I am at a point in my life when my wife is not interested I have decided to try locking myself up. This decision came mostly after over 20 years of not cheating on her to almost doing it again. I feel that I need to...

Hello, still a newbie here. Are there people here who lock themselves because there is no keyholder? And how do you control yourself, manage release if you need it for physical health or because you think you deserve it. How to avoid cheating? I have a wife but she is not into it yet and since...

If self locked is it cheating to take off the cage to clean assuming no playing during this procedure? Does this still count towards a continuous lockdown?

Hello, I'm new to this site. My nick name is Khan, I'm 35 alpha male from Hyderabad, India. I'm matured bearded Muslim gentleman, and extra about being discreet, passionate and highly Sexual. I'm Open Minded, Straight Forward and Trustworthy. I'm looking for a long term or lifetime relationship...

I was wondering what everybody’s perspective is on unauthorized cumming either in or out of the cage. Do you guys consider it a form of infidelity or is it just unattractive or counter productive to your particular relationship dynamic? Is it just a matter of disobedience or attitude?

My lady would really like to know, is it always the case that the man suggests chastity, or is it starting to be a thing where the man is caught "playing away" and the wife dictates chastity device lockup as a condition of reconciliation? We're just curious..

I had a long run now, I locked up when we came back from our holiday on Jan 5th. Since then I have pulled out a lot but only to clean. Today for the first time since the run started I pulled out to clean and afterwards I rubbed him.. Normally that goes so long until I come, either I come when...

This post on a separate thread shows how some males would choose to play secret games with a Domme, over admitting to their own wives their need to be in chastity and use their contained sexual energy to be a better, more attentive husband to them. For husbands here: have you ever reached out...