Caged for Menopaused wife

Pure Eddie

Pure Eddie

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I have had a interesting life of sex. Some bad but mostly good. Now that I am at a point in my life when my wife is not interested I have decided to try locking myself up.

This decision came mostly after over 20 years of not cheating on her to almost doing it again. I feel that I need to either wait for her or stop having pleasure altogether.

I find it easier than crossdressing in secret or having a porn addiction.

And if all goes right I will be buried with this thing on.
 
I feel your pain and confusion over what to do it is almost as if she became A Sexual... She loves the FLR part of it but her desire for sex is ghosting her, all you can do is throw out the usual hint I send her messages once and a while so she still knows I continue to desire her pleasure, edge myself and try and cum only when I can't hold it... The love is there and you just have to work hard at it keep the faith and desire and best of all enjoy being together
 
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Pure Eddie said:
I have had a interesting life of sex. Some bad but mostly good. Now that I am at a point in my life when my wife is not interested I have decided to try locking myself up.

This decision came mostly after over 20 years of not cheating on her to almost doing it again. I feel that I need to either wait for her or stop having pleasure altogether.

I find it easier than crossdressing in secret or having a porn addiction.

And if all goes right I will be buried with this thing on.
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It was very nice of your wife to let you end your sex life because she is done with hers. :rolleyes:
Ideally perhaps she will allow a castration? Hmmm?
 
Pure Eddie said:
I have had a interesting life of sex. Some bad but mostly good. Now that I am at a point in my life when my wife is not interested I have decided to try locking myself up.

This decision came mostly after over 20 years of not cheating on her to almost doing it again. I feel that I need to either wait for her or stop having pleasure altogether.

I find it easier than crossdressing in secret or having a porn addiction.

And if all goes right I will be buried with this thing on.
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I know what you mean for my wife is exactly the same and I am beginning to think that it would be easier just stop having Orgasms altogether and at the moment I am at week eleven and it is not as bad as I thought it would be.
 
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It is perfectly reasonable for a man to expect to have some sort of sex life with his wife, no matter whether she is pre or post menopause. The same goes visa-versa. Sex is considered "normal" in any loving relationship. Even if not interested for herself, most loving wives would make some sort of effort to keep her man happy. Is your wife refusing to do anything at all?

I see no reason for you to give up on sex just because your wife isn't interested.

Of course, if you choose to cage yourself forever and never have an orgasm again, that's up to you, but please don't say that you are doing that for her. It seems that she doesn't care. To consider not having any pleasure yourself is, quite frankly, ridiculous.

Under the circumstances, it would be perfectly "normal" for you to take matters into your own hands and as often as you like. It's your body after all.
 
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Im in the same boat, menapause and no sex, having a hard time emotionally about it! I tried chastity with her but after 3 months i quit because i was locked and forgot about
 
Mojoman said:
It is perfectly reasonable for a man to expect to have some sort of sex life with his wife, no matter whether she is pre or post menopause. The same goes visa-versa. Sex is considered "normal" in any loving relationship. Even if not interested for herself, most loving wives would make some sort of effort to keep her man happy. Is your wife refusing to do anything at all?

I see no reason for you to give up on sex just because your wife isn't interested.

Of course, if you choose to cage yourself forever and never have an orgasm again, that's up to you, but please don't say that you are doing that for her. It seems that she doesn't care. To consider not having any pleasure yourself is, quite frankly, ridiculous.

Under the circumstances, it would be perfectly "normal" for you to take matters into your own hands and as often as you like. It's your body after all.
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Sorry but I disagree and no, you’re not entitled to have sex just because you want it and you will learn that someday.
 
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