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I am married and my wife does not know of my desires. But, I do masturbate too much and think that a chastity device would help. Looking for the right female keyholder to guide me. Anyone out there with this challenge?

I was a complete chastity beginner maybe 2 months ago. Literally I'm too scared to take photos, so I guess I'm shy. But, I love the kink, and now own too many devices, lol. This seems like a great place to hang out and learn more. So, maybe I'll show-off eventually. I might even write some...

Hello all, I am hoping that I will be accepted and welcome in this community. My circumstances differ to some but may feel familiar to some also. I am a submissive, married man in my late forties, fit and in good health with a wonderful, loving wife and a daughter now working away. We've been...

My marriage has always been relatively healthy for the most part. We've dabbled in some chastity play in the past, but ultimately she either wasn't interested or the devices I had weren't suitable for us. Recently chastity has taken on a renewed meaning for me. I've been taking it "seriously."...

I'm writing this as a way to vent my frustrations, excitement and thoughts about what I've been experiencing over the past 7 months or so, and maybe give some ideas, or at least entertainment, to some others out there. It's been a wild ride and looking back I don't think there is any way I could...

I've been a long time viewer of this forum as a lurker, and it's always been my go-to for advice and information relating to chastity. I'm excited to be a part of things now that I've joined and I'm ready to participate where I see fit. I'm married, and as I'm writing this, locked in chastity...

Hi! I’m Winterfr3sh, Midwest married male committing to abstain from sexual stimulation by either myself or my wife. I found this site literally today, jumped right into the chat room and have learned tons already, thanks! I measured myself ice cold flaccid and ordered the UTIMI cock cage...

Hello I'm Sasha and I have played with chastity over the past 8 years self locking on and off... The beginning of 2020 me and my wife decided that she was going to be in charge and that I would be taking a submissive feminine roll in our relationship where I'd have to shave and be locked up in...

Even in the world of DOMME and sub there is a pesky thing called compromise. It simply has to exist for both people to feel happy and fulfilled. And I since their is an overwhelming amount of "male perspective" on these forums I thought I'd describe what it happening in my household RIGHT NOW...

I'm 36yo, french athletic woman, married and I led our couple relationship since 6 years now. I can be your committed keyholder if your are a male and open to verify your session with pictures and videos, open to do some tasks. Message me if you are interested, I can ENG/FRA/DEU(nur-Lese) Miss...

TDLR: Looking for reasonable and discreet Femdom couple matching tattoo ideas I’m looking for a discreet symbol for a male sub/female dominant for a possible tattoo (or engraving on jewelry). The treskilion is not specific, and I want something discreet enough where vanilla types won’t think...

Hi All. Well, I bought a HT v2 a few weeks ago, just as another toy really. And to add a little more spice to a our marriage. My wife has one key on her key-ring at all times and the spare key is hidden by her in the house somewhere. My wife occasionally has other guys in her bed and I watch...

My husband and I are looking for my first cd for me. We are first timers and we find the thought of me giving up control and wearing a cd 24/7/365 to be very erotic. We are looking at the jailbird from maturemetal. We are here to look for advice, tips to get into the lifestyle and like minded...

Long Story Short. Mrs.B and I Started Chastity Play almost a year ago with some ups and downs. around December of last year her health was a bit precarious in relation to us wanting to start a family and sex was removed from the equation for a couple of Months (which is fine by me, her health...

Sup so I have a very small cock I don't know if it's the smallest here but I'm wearing the holy trainer V3 nub with that 36 mm ring and the Rings a little bit too big and the actual cage could come down a couple centimeters me and my wife have been playing around with Chasity for about 3 or 4...

This post on a separate thread shows how some males would choose to play secret games with a Domme, over admitting to their own wives their need to be in chastity and use their contained sexual energy to be a better, more attentive husband to them. For husbands here: have you ever reached out...

I posted about how we use porn as part of our chastity play to my blog yesterday. I just wondered if anyone else does similar or has ideas to share? (I couldn't figure out how to copy the video, you can click the link to see it, it's pretty hot!)...