Hello all,
I am hoping that I will be accepted and welcome in this community. My circumstances differ to some but may feel familiar to some also.
I am a submissive, married man in my late forties, fit and in good health with a wonderful, loving wife and a daughter now working away. We've been together for 14years, both our second marriages and married for four.
I have always had problems with ED since being very young and, as such have never had a traditional relationship with sex. I've aways wanted to be submissive to a woman or couple and never been comfortable requesting anything sexually.
When my wife and I first met we had the conversation about my ED and have managed to maintain a reasonable level of intimacy in our relationship over the years. When we met I also told her about the things that I found exciting, that represented my sexuality. Simple things like clothing and silver jewellery to chastity, in the hope it might lead us to a more fulfilling relationship.
We recently had a genuinely heartbreaking conversation that I thought might end in us splitting up. As life goes on I want to explore my sexuality and understand how things could feel. After many long conversations since, we have agreed that the conversation of anything other than vanilla mutual masturbation if off limits and that I will have to forge my own path of discovery.
I have self locked in chastity for many years, when my wife is out enjoying the feeling of the cage, the embarrassment and the sense of humiliation. I wear my wifes panties also but have no sense of where to go with any of this and felt that this sort of forum might at least help me to understand myself better.
Thanks all
I am hoping that I will be accepted and welcome in this community. My circumstances differ to some but may feel familiar to some also.
I am a submissive, married man in my late forties, fit and in good health with a wonderful, loving wife and a daughter now working away. We've been together for 14years, both our second marriages and married for four.
I have always had problems with ED since being very young and, as such have never had a traditional relationship with sex. I've aways wanted to be submissive to a woman or couple and never been comfortable requesting anything sexually.
When my wife and I first met we had the conversation about my ED and have managed to maintain a reasonable level of intimacy in our relationship over the years. When we met I also told her about the things that I found exciting, that represented my sexuality. Simple things like clothing and silver jewellery to chastity, in the hope it might lead us to a more fulfilling relationship.
We recently had a genuinely heartbreaking conversation that I thought might end in us splitting up. As life goes on I want to explore my sexuality and understand how things could feel. After many long conversations since, we have agreed that the conversation of anything other than vanilla mutual masturbation if off limits and that I will have to forge my own path of discovery.
I have self locked in chastity for many years, when my wife is out enjoying the feeling of the cage, the embarrassment and the sense of humiliation. I wear my wifes panties also but have no sense of where to go with any of this and felt that this sort of forum might at least help me to understand myself better.
Thanks all