need advice

  1. herpdiderp

    Steel CB6x And Steel Holy Trainer?

    I’ve been posting a lot on this site lately, so apologies. Just looking to see if anyone has tried one of the steel cb6000 knockoffs or the steel holy trainer knockoffs. I’m really considering getting an enclosed cage, and I’m really married to steel right now, though my mind could be swayed...
  2. Bexxy.W

    Hey!

    Hi guys, so glad I found this site! So I'm fairly new to this, my husband and I have tried the chastity cage/denial route for a couple of year on and off. I'm open to any and all tips you guys may have
  3. T.G.

    I am new and need help

    Hello Everyone, I am 56 years old and starting into real life D/s relationship I hope. I live on the West Coast of the US. I am under consideration from a Domme and she would like to lock me up. I also would love to lock myself up for her. I was lead to this site by doing a google search to...
  4. longtallsally

    New kh: How to pre-empt excuses for not being locked?

    A quick question from a novice keyholder. I'm hoping to agree some principles with My Pete this evening. If that goes ok, I want to lock him there and then, which I'm pretty sure he won't be expecting. I've been trying to think of excuses he'll come up with and wanted to pre-empt them. I think...
  5. J

    New to this

    Brought a cage off the internet to just try it out and just about managed to convince my gf who’s very vanilla to try it out. We haven’t had sex for over 3 months anyway. In a week our relationships changed massively I’m doing way more things for her and she says she’s less stressed; it actually...
  6. J

    Cage advice for a sporty guy

    Hi all. I'm about to go into what I hope is long term chastity for my partner, and I'd like some advice on a suitable cage. I've tried the CB6000 and I didn't like it for long term - hate the enclosed thing, I think it gets grungy, so I'd prefer an open device. I've also tried various stainless...
  7. H

    Pressure ache after even short term wear

    I've had a chastity kink for a long time, but after finally telling my SO, I'm only just now starting to actually do anything, so I have no experience outside of reading about it. I've gotten one of the cheap cages to start out and I'm finding that, even after just a few hours, my balls ache...
  8. Kobihnt

    Hello from South FL

    My husband and I are looking for my first cd for me. We are first timers and we find the thought of me giving up control and wearing a cd 24/7/365 to be very erotic. We are looking at the jailbird from maturemetal. We are here to look for advice, tips to get into the lifestyle and like minded...
  9. T

    Looking for the Right Piece

    Hi All, Brand spanking new here! I'm actually here because my wife likes messing with chastity cages, but is more so looking for a cock cage that gives her access to tease my cock as much as she wants. I've seen a few that look pretty good, but they all end up pinching me at the top. So...