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  1. Knox_

    Exposed in public

    After 2 weeks of chastity, it is time for a meet and play night with @KeyholderD. Preparations have been made. I have obediently brought my necessities with me this day. We are going for a bit of sailing, one of our hobbies. As a first assignment, I have to insert a vibrating remote-controlled...
  2. N

    Discovering my Humiliation Kink

    Hello fellow Kinksters! My goddess and I have been having fun in Chastity for about 2 years now, but recently I've discovered I really like humiliation after reading a guide to humiliation in Chastity. My Goddess and I are going to have a long talk about what they are comfortable with and what...
  3. SpankySD

    Locker Room Etiquette

    I’ve hashed this over a bit, in my own mind, with my KH and some others. I’m curious for feedback. When I’m locked, it’s in a metal cage with PA hook. The cage is inescapable, and I don’t have the key. My KH is quite strict. My longest lock up has been 113 days. I average one opportunity to...
  4. asastype

    LoopLocking Tomorrow?

    There's quite a bit of mention on FetLife and (so i understand) Reddit inviting those in chastity to wear a locked padlock around a belt loop tomorrow, June 9. Seems like a neat new holiday to add to the chastity calendar along with Locktober, Chastity Day and others. I will dig out a small...
  5. longtallsally

    urgent question about swimming in chastity

    Help! My Pete has just texted to say he wants to go swimming and can he take his cage off (he has an emergency key with him)? His swimming trunks are the reasonably baggy sort so that can't be the justification. But would the cage interfere with swimming?? We're not talking about champion...
  6. longtallsally

    Deep breath. And... relax. Here goes

    Hello folks, I joined this site, nervously, just a few days ago and have had my prejudices delightfully dismantled. Nobody’s lectured me, or indulged in ‘mansplaining’ or been rude or overbearing. I’ve had such lovely, positive gentle advice. So, with another deep breath I thought I’d keep a...
  7. longtallsally

    Keyholder learning about herself

    What a lovely friendly forum. Thank you for the welcome. Well, I only made my first post a day ago and I've already learned a lot. Thank you. Some of the responses have articulated what I hadn't really managed to think through for myself. Especially, thanks to @Subhub101, @BarbCD and @MSDB321...
  8. M

    Chastity cage in Gay Bar

    Hey lovely members of CM, Would you go to a gay bar / cruising place while locked? Usually these places require people to be wearing a certain dresscode or on being naked. Is it approriate? Not everyone is into kink, I probably would not go to a nude beach in chastity (even though I like the...
  9. D

    Has your key holder or wife ever made you serve or humiliated you in front of young girls?

    Have you ever been made to serve younger women ( 18 or 19 year old girls)? What are the most humiliating fantasies you have? How would you like to be humiliated?
  10. supermario77

    This Meme spreading Chastity awareness

    Thanks to whoever created this meme, I've seen it pop up everywhere over the past few weeks, with more people than not knowing exactly what it's for
  11. L

    Locked Up in Lockdown (Melbourne AU)

    Hello All, I'm Lachy, 41 year old guy from Melbourne A beautiful friend (and relentless tease) once told me "Life is too short to pretend you're not into kinky shit" Those were not the most eloquent words she ever said, but they certainly captured my attention back then, and ring true to...
  12. Guiness

    Public Display?

    One of my kicks out of being locked is the possibility that it'll be discovered. To that end I've always encouraged my wife to wear the key in public - either on a necklace or anklet. She's been very reticent, particularly in the early days, although she's becoming more confident now. I think...
  13. Lust Moments

    Chastity + Cuckold + serious tease and denial + public play

    Story is a bit long, hope you will like it What is cuckolding?
  14. G

    Airports and Steel cages

    Flying from Grand Cayman to South Africa passing through Atlanta Caged ! What an experience !! Had a few pat downs after the alarms went off ! The looks i recieved was priceless ! But made it through and am happy to be caged 24/7 NO MATTER WHAT !
  15. Breathe

    Subtle Signs of Chastity in Public

    I'm a big fan of subtle D/s signals - so much can be said with so little! It's also nice when your gestures aren't seen as offensive in public, since most people never even pick up on them, anyway. Unless they're also in the know... ;) My key 'pendant' is on proud display, of course; that...
  16. Interested-chaste

    nervous about going to work

    I trying to build up the courage to wear my device to work for the first time and am looking for advice, Im confident I can wear it that that long as it is comfortable as ever I've also worn it many time just buying groceries. I just can't manage to cross the line and wear it to work. Tips or...
  17. D

    Dream or Nightmare

    I just had my first Chastity dream! I was walking down a busy city street, when I suddenly needed to pee. I quickly found a men's room, I was desperate.....it was one of those open plan Victorian ones with the large banks of porcelain urinals. I always sit to pee in real life, but for some...
  18. caged to honor wife

    campground public shower (help)

    I'm heading out in a couple months for a week long camp. My wife / keyholder STRICTLY informed me that I will wear my cage. I need to mention she will not attend and it is several states away. She will have the key so I will wear it all week that week without removal. I did some research and...