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Hi, its Ruben, I'm a 20 year old boy straight but curious about being pegged by a woman. I'm switch, that means that I can be dominant or submissive and that makes me when sub being brat. I want to find someone to try things, like chastity for example, and feel the power of the keyholder.

A summary of chastity journey with my Ex-wife, why we divorce and what I enjoy now with my loving and caring partner. pleasure to be locked for someone who appreciate it. The intimacy the connection it create. It also another experience of a man that sometime can dominate in the bedroom (i'm...

I'm writing this as a way to vent my frustrations, excitement and thoughts about what I've been experiencing over the past 7 months or so, and maybe give some ideas, or at least entertainment, to some others out there. It's been a wild ride and looking back I don't think there is any way I could...

Hey! My husband and I are both new too male chastity and really just here for research and too meet like minded people who share the interests and kinks. He is the one who brought it up and has tried to cage himself but never really someone too explore with till now and me. We are both...

In my intro I had expressed questions so here we go... 1.) Can this only be bedroom play successfully? Meaning I don't want or need him to do everything. 2.) If me and my counterpart want a baby what is the risk of infertility? 3.) How can I get more into enjoying him being under lock? 4.) How...

Hello! So let me introduce myself, I'm a handsome French guy in his late 20s, new in the chastity world (but I already have my cage!). I'm looking to experiment a lot of different things. I'm very open minded and curious about everything related to chastity and pegging. I'm a good switch as...

Hello everyone! I'm so glad to join your community. I'm very new in the chastity world but I think I already love it! I bought my very first cage few weeks ago and I have to admit that I have been surprised by how exciting it was. I'm a French guy, in my late 20s, living in San Francisco. I...

So I am planning on tying up my girlfriend and edging her for a while denying her orgasm until she agrees to dominant me for locktober. I'd like to give her a list of ideas and am working towards guidelines for her that will make her more make her more interested in femdom. She isn't...

Not sure exactly how I found this site, but I assume via a link from one of the many other chastity sites I've visited over the years. As you can see from my profile, I made the account in 2009, but haven't posted much since. I'm not sure exactly how long I've been interested in chastity and...

So, not 100% sure why I put this here. Guess hope springs eternal. I am a dominant with just enough sub in me that I need someone to understand it. I ain't looking for a mistress or full-time keyholder. Just a female that can appreciate teasing and taking control sometimes, chastity included...

Hi! I'm curious to find out how distinctive my situation is - I wouldn't be surprised to bump into folks like me! I switch, though never with the same person (tried it - spoils the dynamic for me.) My wife is vanilla and not involved in my kinky life, though she knows about it and encourages...

I finally got my correctly sized Holy Trainer v3 in today (My other HT V3 is for sale in the for sale section). My gf asked what the package was that came today. I went ahead and told her. I also told her I had been putting together a revised chastity contract for us and asked if she wanted to...

Hey guys, I'm glad I found this community. The people here seem very cool and accepting, and I feel safe being open. Until recently, I haven't explored a lot of my deeper sexual desires. I love restraints and being submissive, but there is still some shame attached with it I'm trying to work...

Hello everybody. CosmicCandi here. I've been a member of this site for some time, and I thought I'd started a journal here previously, but I wasn't able to find it. So, let me start one now. I found BDSM online at age 13 in the early days of the Internet. I started off as a submissive in a...

Obviously, being in chastity involves a considerable submissive element. However I'm interested to hear from couples where the man in chastity, but is allowed to dominate the female occasionally from a BDSM aspect. If so, is there a routine - for example the male allowed to be dominant once a...

Long-timer lurker but first-time poster. I've recently gotten out of a very vanilla LTR and am trying to get into the kink scene, realizing that it's not something I can deny myself any longer. Chastity and orgasm-control/orgasm-denial have probably been my top kinks for as long as I can...