Hi. Im Mike and i've bene locked in chastity for 17 years. Now i'm locked in a lori's tube since 2016. I get a pa piercing at the beginning of my journey. I've always been a submissive man. When I discovered that there was a way to give up to my right to cum i couldnt belive It. In some weeks i discovered everything about chastity cages. In that time i abstained myself from cumming for some days/weeks(my longest period was like 47 days). After that i knew my wife. We had a normal relationship in the first months then I told her that i wanted to be locked up. I explain her everything about chastity. Some weeks later i get a pa and After some months i get my first cage. At that time i was 22. Then i've been locked for a month. I was getting crazy. At the end of my 30th day i was released and allowed to cum inside her. We made a deal: when she wanted sex she would have ask me and i had to lick her pussy. After one year my chastity became permanent. Last time i was inside a pussy was when i was 23. I am allowed to be released once a year, cum and then Im locked up again. I lick her pussy once a month and when she wants I can kiss her, and thats all. You may ask me if after all this years my libido Is lower, and i answer that its always the same. My balls always ache and i crave to be inside a pussy everyday. But i can Say that After some months of continuous chastity i had no more sleeping problems, I had no more concentration problems and no more anxiety because of sexual abstinence and in general of abstinence from ejaculation. I had no prostate issues.Everyday i ask myself why I did such a stupid choice. My wife Is addicted to chastity and she said me that she cant really force me to wear my cage, but now its the only way out marriage can work.
17 years chastity
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The suspense is terrible...I hope it lasts
I am in my 8th year of being locked. She is not as strict as yours, and I get to be inside of her still, and I cum more than once per year.
I wanted to comment because of your last point of this being a no going back with your wife.
I know this is a choice, and technically I have the capacity to quit, but that doesn’t change the fact it would have consequences. It would be difficult to justify suddenly saying “I would like to be able to bypass you and touch myself whenever I want”. For me it would not be going back to some previous established behavior. We started this a few months into dating. This is 99% of what our relationship history.
She’s not a monster and would certainly listen to my concerns, and we would come up with a compromise or fix whatever I was having a problem with. Just stopping would be considered somewhat callous and hurtful. It would leave her with more questions and doubt.
I cannot see a circumstance that she would be ok with me being completely uncaged all the time, knowing that I was perfectly capable and happy to be caged for this long. It would be a shock and would rightfully confuse our relationship and roles in it.
I wanted to comment because of your last point of this being a no going back with your wife.
I know this is a choice, and technically I have the capacity to quit, but that doesn’t change the fact it would have consequences. It would be difficult to justify suddenly saying “I would like to be able to bypass you and touch myself whenever I want”. For me it would not be going back to some previous established behavior. We started this a few months into dating. This is 99% of what our relationship history.
She’s not a monster and would certainly listen to my concerns, and we would come up with a compromise or fix whatever I was having a problem with. Just stopping would be considered somewhat callous and hurtful. It would leave her with more questions and doubt.
I cannot see a circumstance that she would be ok with me being completely uncaged all the time, knowing that I was perfectly capable and happy to be caged for this long. It would be a shock and would rightfully confuse our relationship and roles in it.
This all sounds like immature incel bs. You mention having a wife. There is little talk of this "wife". You mention her briefly when you talk about coming inside her. The rest of the time you talk about you. How you've done everything chastity wise up to and including you getting a PA at 22. It is highly unlikely that this girlfriend of yours exists because you hardly mention her. I on the other hand mention my gf constantly on my posts because she is the artist, I am the canvass. Quite literally if you see the bruises she left on me in my photos. So why should I care?
The reason I am outing you as a fraud and fantasist is because you are casually mentioning a made up female in your fantasy as some kind of receptacle. I don't like that. Have some respect for femininity if you want to stay here. If you want to make up a female character in your incel fantasy either give her a personality or take it elsewhere.
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Gosh, you’re very sure of yourself here, have you considered the possibility that he’s telling the truth?
Oops was I a bit harsh? Sounds like the OP has had an amazing journey. Almost like bits of every other account of chastity play all in one. Can't wait to hear more.
Can't be so. Unless you're being viciously tortured at every opportunity your experience isn't valid or real. Or so I'm told anyway.
I know you love my posts about our sado-masochistic relationship. Alas, I have a rather unremarkable couple of days ahead decorating my mistress' house. I'll keep you guys updated. I'll be decorating but, wait for it... whilst wearing a chastity cage! How cool is that?
Be sure and tell your domme she's a sex worker while you're decorating your house.
That's not very nice calling my gf a whore. I thought we were just winding each other up a bit. Maybe take it down a notch bro?
You're making a fool of yourself. You've just called a female who you've never met a working whore who gets paid money for sex acts. That's really quite different from my girlfriend who is sexually playful in a stable relationship. You're showing classic signs of sexual frustration here. I think you're feeling a negative response to my having a bdsm love life because you're frustrated you don't have more of that in yours. Go back to my early posts, see how I managed to live out previous fantasies by simply buying the toys and equipment needed without much discussion. I wish you both well on your bdsm journey.
I'm afraid you've lost me I have no idea what you're on about. I didn't think the Iranian Morale Police would be particularly bothered what a Scottish couple are doing in their bedroom at night and the guy posting on Chastity Mansion. I stand corrected. Are you OK?
I'm fine. I'm not one making statements like if you stand to pee you're signaling for gay sex. Or the greatest hits of every way but mine is wrong.
I stand by that statement and if you are wanting other men to see you peeing while caged that is a very good way of starting a bi-curious encounter and would be very exciting for the top standing next to you. I'm all for that, it's very kinky and a great way to hook up for bi-curious people who own penises.
I'm not hurt by you calling my girlfriend a whore, it's too far from the truth to bother us, just surprised you don't apply the same manners and etiquette on a public online forum as you would hopefully do in real life. Don't be a keyboard warrior, we have enough of those ... JSY.
I'm not hurt by you calling my girlfriend a whore, it's too far from the truth to bother us, just surprised you don't apply the same manners and etiquette on a public online forum as you would hopefully do in real life. Don't be a keyboard warrior, we have enough of those ... JSY.
You got the keyboard warrior part covered just fine. It's almost as if there aren't stalls you can stand up in, or dividers between urinals. Or peeing behind a tree at a field party. Nope none of those exist
Actually before chastity whilst peeing at a urinal I had a guy openly stare at my willy and make advances towards me. I couldn't put it away until I was finished. It was creepy and offensive because I'm not into that. He was gay and horny and out of order. I politely declined but don't really like public urinals now.
Anyway stop griefing me. I note you've doubled down on calling my gf a whore and not apologised. You happy with that? I got no beef with you man, go and get a cheap dog shock collar so you're not climbing the walls in chastity.
I'm not one called all dommes sex workers. That was you. It's a bitch when blanket statements bite you in the ass isn't it
I lack the time or inclination to search for a post for something we both know was said. Enjoy your torture and nearly going into shock.
It doesn't make any sense so is not something I would say. Professional dommes and females who domme in a relationship are different things. You are a very confused person who, it would seem, has puritanical aversion to sadomasochism but can't look away. Good luck!