Yesterday was my 3rd birthday on CM, it seems so long ago that I joined and started speaking to various people. @maid_carrie and @MaidCharlotte were the first to speak to me as a real person as opposed to the initial – will you lock me chats. Thanks go to them for the many BDSM 101 talks they had with me lol.
Don’t get me wrong, I have certainly locked a few members here in my time, although not so much now that I do it in a professional capacity. It was a fun way to learn so much about the world I now inhabited.
Looking back it is amazing to think how much I didn’t know and how much I do know now.
There are many threads on CM where you won’t see me post as I am female and therefore anything I said about the physical aspects would be assumptions rather than facts. I don't feel it would be right for me to post about the physicality of being chaste when I cannot experience it. Although I will warn to be careful about locking for too long at the beginning, that is a definite no no and I have seen the damage that can do personally.
There are also many threads where I do post, especially ones asking questions about partners and introducing them to male chastity. Trust me, the male brain thinks very differently from the female brain so you really want to be listening to the females for help with that.
Who would have thought three years ago that the complete newbie would now be engaged to the guy who initially said “hi” and then “I have to go” in our first chat. Who would have thought that the newbie would in such a short time be part owner of Scotland’s largest BDSM dungeon, a professional dominatrix, fetish author, online sex shop owner and run fetish clubs?
Gotta say, I love my life
Don’t get me wrong, I have certainly locked a few members here in my time, although not so much now that I do it in a professional capacity. It was a fun way to learn so much about the world I now inhabited.
Looking back it is amazing to think how much I didn’t know and how much I do know now.
There are many threads on CM where you won’t see me post as I am female and therefore anything I said about the physical aspects would be assumptions rather than facts. I don't feel it would be right for me to post about the physicality of being chaste when I cannot experience it. Although I will warn to be careful about locking for too long at the beginning, that is a definite no no and I have seen the damage that can do personally.
There are also many threads where I do post, especially ones asking questions about partners and introducing them to male chastity. Trust me, the male brain thinks very differently from the female brain so you really want to be listening to the females for help with that.
Who would have thought three years ago that the complete newbie would now be engaged to the guy who initially said “hi” and then “I have to go” in our first chat. Who would have thought that the newbie would in such a short time be part owner of Scotland’s largest BDSM dungeon, a professional dominatrix, fetish author, online sex shop owner and run fetish clubs?
Gotta say, I love my life
