We have been using a strap on more often lately (maybe 2x a month). I got her a perfectly sized bullet vibe that fits under the strap on between her labia and just under her hood and is held in place by the pressure of the strap on tightened up. She always has me go down on "her" before she takes me. Personally I love it, and so does she! It takes a bit of work but I am usually able to get her to come (unfortunately it always seems to be when I deep throat). I love it when she says she came in my mouth. She usually has a few more orgasms when she is inside me, and last week had her first standing orgasm while I was on my back at the end of the bed and she was standing. Roughly two months ago she had me riding her and when I finally came off she held her "cock" and said you aren't done yet and gestured me to suck her off again. I guess I was totally in the moment and I went right back to it, musk and all, and got her off one more time. Looking back I am fairly skeeved by it but happy it happened. Thank goodness I had prepped very well before that.