After 51 years of marriage, she wants a FLR

vinnyD

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My wife has been complaining a lot lately about how she does all the work around the house. I have told her many times in the past that we should have a FLR marriage where she is in charge since as it is now, there is no downside from doing nothing. Well she went online and wants to tie my orgasms into how well I complete cleaning tasks at home. Plus she wants me to wear a summer dress over my panties which she had bought me to replace my male underwear a few months ago.

Her idea is four tasks: run the dishwasher, clean the bathrooms, vacuum all rugs and polish/dust furniture and window blinds. If I do well, I get an orgasm that week. If there is one single thing wrong, I have to wait until the next week. Waiting is no big deal as I have gone months without an orgasm. She said she will start me off with one task and when I do it to her satisfaction she will give me an additional task until all four are done perfectly by me.

I have no idea how this will work out as I am not a domestic type person. I have spent a lot of my time overseas on business and now retired with time on my hand. Not really into being a maid or wearing female clothes as I am very alpha normally. Most people are afraid to anger me because I look like a Mafia hitman and used to teach knife and gun fighting plus a decorated combat vet.

She said she thought that holding off my orgasms would make me volunteer to do housework but as I mentioned, I am used to going months without an orgasm so her plan did not work out well. She read some stuff online and now wants to try it to see if that would motivate me to do housework the way SHE wants it done and not half assed as I tend to do it. To take care of the issue of me being able to go a long time without an orgasm, she said she would punish my ass if I did not do a good job. That is more of a motivator than withholding my orgasms so maybe it will work out.

I am not excited as my life since I retired has given me time to engage in my many hobbies and interests and this will cut into that time. As I have posted elsewhere, we try new things all the time so we will give it a go and see what happens. Not excited or looking forward to this so time will tell.

How many of you are doing domestic chores. I am not into sissy play so dressing me up in female clothes is not exciting,. I do not embarrass easily so I told her that making me dress up in female stuff does not do anything for me. She simply said it is for her amusement and was curious if it would have an effect of toning down my alphaness. Will update in the future.
 
We practice a FLR and it's mostly about chores. My Wife/Mistress loves my obedience, it's her favourite part of Femdom and chastity. She gives me lists of things she expects to be done. We don't do any dressing up.

In terms of chastity as a motivator she's not planning to let me cum until the beginning of August, but that's only if I'm obedient, otherwise she'll just pick a new date. So I'm desperate to keep her happy.

She even withholds her own pleasure as a motivator for me. She's gone into the office today and I'm working from home. She expects the kitchen to be clean, the wooden floors swept & dinner on the table when she gets home. She told me if that's done and if she's in the mood then she'll let me go down on her. She was wearing such as cute office outfit this morning... that reminds me better go clean the kitchen ;)
 
Keeping it interesting... Congrats...assuming you are 100% good with it.

I am always good with trying things but my life experience shows that I try many things but usually find new things to try to keep things interesting.
 
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My wife has been complaining a lot lately about how she does all the work around the house. I have told her many times in the past that we should have a FLR marriage where she is in charge since as it is now, there is no downside from doing nothing. Well she went online and wants to tie my orgasms into how well I complete cleaning tasks at home. Plus she wants me to wear a summer dress over my panties which she had bought me to replace my male underwear a few months ago.

Her idea is four tasks: run the dishwasher, clean the bathrooms, vacuum all rugs and polish/dust furniture and window blinds. If I do well, I get an orgasm that week. If there is one single thing wrong, I have to wait until the next week. Waiting is no big deal as I have gone months without an orgasm. She said she will start me off with one task and when I do it to her satisfaction she will give me an additional task until all four are done perfectly by me.

I have no idea how this will work out as I am not a domestic type person. I have spent a lot of my time overseas on business and now retired with time on my hand. Not really into being a maid or wearing female clothes as I am very alpha normally. Most people are afraid to anger me because I look like a Mafia hitman and used to teach knife and gun fighting plus a decorated combat vet.

She said she thought that holding off my orgasms would make me volunteer to do housework but as I mentioned, I am used to going months without an orgasm so her plan did not work out well. She read some stuff online and now wants to try it to see if that would motivate me to do housework the way SHE wants it done and not half assed as I tend to do it. To take care of the issue of me being able to go a long time without an orgasm, she said she would punish my ass if I did not do a good job. That is more of a motivator than withholding my orgasms so maybe it will work out.

I am not excited as my life since I retired has given me time to engage in my many hobbies and interests and this will cut into that time. As I have posted elsewhere, we try new things all the time so we will give it a go and see what happens. Not excited or looking forward to this so time will tell.

How many of you are doing domestic chores. I am not into sissy play so dressing me up in female clothes is not exciting,. I do not embarrass easily so I told her that making me dress up in female stuff does not do anything for me. She simply said it is for her amusement and was curious if it would have an effect of toning down my alphaness. Will update in the future.
I do a lot of the chores around the house now and really enjoy it. It gives Shaz a lot more free time to do the things she likes. It’s made a big difference to both our lives in a good way
 
For us chores are just a normal part of the routine in a Big family.
She definitely does more of them because I work away at distance more days and way more hours and I can't be two places at once.

But when I'm off it's 90% me on chores and family stuff.
But my primary goal is to make things easier for her on my days off and for when I'm back at work and can't help out.
 
I do a fair amount of the chores, but nowhere near 100%. But I always do whatever she asks, and I am always careful to give her space to do what she chooses to do. (Everything else, I will take care of.) She likes to do the laundry, most of the time. She often likes to cook. She sometimes likes to do the dishes. But in the end, it's her decision.
 
I do almost all the chores, exception is laundry. I rarely do that. I also serve her all the time. I bring her breakfast in bed. Occasionally I'm allowed to kiss her feet. I make lunch and usually dinner and serve her before me.
I give her pedicures, foot massages, back massages. I have prostate cancer and lost my prostate so getting hard is hit or miss. This really works into her dominance and my submission quite well.
I use toys on her, orally please her and she then usually cucks me with our dildos and we have strap-on sex.
But I'm pretty alpha and practice honor system chastity. I don't cross dress, (although I occasionally have sucked the dildo after she cums).
 
My wife has been complaining a lot lately about how she does all the work around the house. I have told her many times in the past that we should have a FLR marriage where she is in charge since as it is now, there is no downside from doing nothing. Well she went online and wants to tie my orgasms into how well I complete cleaning tasks at home. Plus she wants me to wear a summer dress over my panties which she had bought me to replace my male underwear a few months ago.

Her idea is four tasks: run the dishwasher, clean the bathrooms, vacuum all rugs and polish/dust furniture and window blinds. If I do well, I get an orgasm that week. If there is one single thing wrong, I have to wait until the next week. Waiting is no big deal as I have gone months without an orgasm. She said she will start me off with one task and when I do it to her satisfaction she will give me an additional task until all four are done perfectly by me.

I have no idea how this will work out as I am not a domestic type person. I have spent a lot of my time overseas on business and now retired with time on my hand. Not really into being a maid or wearing female clothes as I am very alpha normally. Most people are afraid to anger me because I look like a Mafia hitman and used to teach knife and gun fighting plus a decorated combat vet.

She said she thought that holding off my orgasms would make me volunteer to do housework but as I mentioned, I am used to going months without an orgasm so her plan did not work out well. She read some stuff online and now wants to try it to see if that would motivate me to do housework the way SHE wants it done and not half assed as I tend to do it. To take care of the issue of me being able to go a long time without an orgasm, she said she would punish my ass if I did not do a good job. That is more of a motivator than withholding my orgasms so maybe it will work out.

I am not excited as my life since I retired has given me time to engage in my many hobbies and interests and this will cut into that time. As I have posted elsewhere, we try new things all the time so we will give it a go and see what happens. Not excited or looking forward to this so time will tell.

How many of you are doing domestic chores. I am not into sissy play so dressing me up in female clothes is not exciting,. I do not embarrass easily so I told her that making me dress up in female stuff does not do anything for me. She simply said it is for her amusement and was curious if it would have an effect of toning down my alphaness. Will update in the future.

I feel sharing the household chores once both have retired is only fair. and has very little to do with
 
have told her many times in the past that we should have a FLR marriage where she is in charge ( ... snip ...)

I am not excited as my life since I retired has given me time to engage in my many hobbies and interests and this will cut into that time. (... snip ...) Not excited or looking forward to this so time will tell.

What, exactly, were you picturing back when you were rooting for an FLR? Apparently her actually leading and telling you what she wants isn't interesting for you, so what exactly in her leadership style did you find so interesting in the past?