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BavarianWoman

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Mar 25, 2023
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Nice greetings from Munich to the world.

I found this site two weeks ago, beeing new to male chastity.
This morning I woke up early with a dirty mind, woke up my husband asking him if he might be so polite to like me to orgasm, which he agreed immediately.
While he was under the blanket I regisererd here between two orgasms.
Now he fell asleep again, besides me, while I am still horny, writing here.

He has no idea, what I am reading about. I am not sure if I have.

I will shut off the notebook now, huddle him and will go down on him.
 
Good morning everybody

I know that I am not starting my journey at the beginning. But I will do so soon. My husband has to leave for a business trip already today, because tomorrow there will be a nationwide general strike here in Germany.
He will be away till Tuesday evening, so I will have time to write something here.
While he was preparing his luggage this morning I asked him if there was time to give me an oral job. He watched his watch (as a joke) and said we need to be quick. He was very passionate ;-)

Now we are going to have lunch in our favourite restaurant and then I will bring him to the train.

See you later.
 
Hello again to anybody

My husband is at his train for the next hours.
A am comfortably sitting in an armchair, lit a candle made teaa and it's raining outside.

Now I think that I should introduce myself. (I appologize the jump start).

I am a 40 year old woman, working high level in an insurance company and I am married since eight years, my husband is one year older, actually his 41. birthday will be in two days. He is working as an engeneer.
We are living in an apartment tower high up with a nice view to the alps.
I think our sex life is quite usual. Maybe it dropped for a while during the pandemic. Our jobs were easily changed to home office and business trips we cut off. Both of us are on business trips once in one or two weeks.
Sitting at home all the time, making phone calls in diffent roms, trying to not annoy the other one stressed us and that was bad for our sex life.

Around a year ago, after the third vaccination it seemed that there situation will normalize. Both our companies decided to remain on a certain level of home office and working in the company. Together with that and our business trips we fond a way, that only one of us is working from home. We furnished our home office in one room, arranged everything according to both of our companies and share this between us two.

Things began to normalize. There was a nice summer and Oktoberfest was possible again after beeing canceled twice the years before. The Covid counter accelerated again and we got anxius that we will have to return to beeing at home both all the day.

Luckily the numbers dropped and it seemd that the christmas fairs will be there, which were also canceled twice. There are many small fairs everywhere in the city and it is common to visit a few at the same evening.

One day we were on one the way between christmas fares and spontaneously went to a sex toy shop, which was very decorative just offering one product line, migtht have been a popup store for Christmas. Many nice items, we said we are considering. With two cups of hot whine punch we decided to check out the dirty red suitcase under our bed. It was a nice weekend we didn't leave the bed.

At another visit at the fares we took our reomte controlled devices with us. I had my Lelo Lyla in and he wore his Lelo Hugo and we had each otthers remote control. Sometimes it was difficult not empty the whine cup unintentionally.

We found that mentioned store and bought Christmas presents. I got a lovense Flexer and he got a Lovense Hush in size 3 of 5. These devices are controlled with the phone and from an other distant phone as well.
We couldn't was till christmas and they became in use soon. With on of us on a business trip we have had nice evenings with these toys and video calls.

For those, still reading, I will need a few more posts, before coming to castity.
 
Shortly after new year I had my 40th birthday, we had a party at home but ended not too late, because it was on a tuesday.
After the guests left, my husband said that there gifts waiting in bed, kissed me, took my hand and we went to the bedroom.
The were a few small gift boxes, nicely decorated. I started to unwrap them. The first onewas another sex toy from the collection at the store visited for Christmas presents, turned out to be the Lovense Lush.
I want to try it right now, I said. We got undressed in seconds. I told im to lick the toy slippery while I connected it to my phone. He gave me the toy and it slipped in well. It felt very well immediately, it goes deeper than the Flexer.
I made it pulsating moderately and slipped under the blanket and took him with me. Let's see, what's the next gift I told to him and kissed him.
Then I realised that all boxes had the same size. I asked him if that were all Toys? Will see, he smiled.
I opend the next present, remote controlled nipple clamps. I laughed and asked him, if he got lost in binge shopping with dirty thoughts. I said I will unpack the last gift before knowning how many I can handle at a time.
In the last box was Hush bigger than the one he got on Christmas. Okay I said, maybe sometimes. He told it was size 4 of 5 and it is as thick as his cock.
Okay I said, took the blanket from him, his cock was hard, I stroked him a few times held the plug besides him and said, yes I can handle that, if in the mood.
He said, he can handle it too. Fore sure I said, and the nipple clamps too? And smiled at him. Why won't find it out? He smiled back.
He told that he will bring us two glasses of Champagne from the kitchen while I shall become familiar with the toys.
He came back with two glases a hard boner and another gift box. I had to laugh and ask if he became obsessive. He laughed as well and said, it's the last one.
He got to manage to get under the blanket without dropping the glasses. We clinked the glasses and I took the last gift. When I startet unwrapping he told that he actually bought this one for him. Okay, I said, then it's up to yours and handed it to him. He unwrapped it and it was the Gush, a vibrating penis manchette.
We played with them in more ways one can describe. Later we cuddled and I asked him how could all the toys be fully charged while originally sealed? Because he is an electrical engeneer. He wanted to say somesting, stop it I said, slapped him softly and said who cares.
We wiil need a strong USB charger he said. We had to laugh.
 
We have played a lot with all these toys together or when one of us was on a business trip. It is funny how many different arrangements we found and who will take which toys to the travels.
We have learnt to keep us on the edge, oneself or the other one, insane.
Altough Valentine's Day is not a big issue for us, I thought to buy some old school stuff after all that high tech. I made some vague hints.
In the evening we went to our favourite restaurant. Before, while getting dressed, he suggested the toys, but I said: "No, no toys, no phones. Take it slowly this ewening"
It was a nice dinner and when we came home later he wanted us to rush right into the bedroom.
Calm down, I said, we are not in a hurry. I said that I have something to prepare, he shall go to the kitchen make us two glasses of red wine, then get naked and wo wait ther until I will call him.

I let him wait some time until everything was arranged. I told him to come in.
He was overwelmed at first. dimmed light candles I sat in the armchair wearing a black lace bra, suspender belts, straps and stockings all in black, no thong or pant.
On a small table besides me there was a candle too, his penis-vibrator, my phone and a paddle (that was new). On the other side the was a box covered with a black towel.
He stood there, totally amazed. I asked for my glas of whine he gave it to me, standing in front of me while I kept sitting. I had some wine and told him to discover the old school things I got.
I asked him, if he was ready some bondage. (We had done this before, but I bought some new stuff.)
He was ready for sure.
I grabbed inside the box and gave him collar and leash, he put it on. I reached out to get the leash handed to me and pulled him to me and his cock (rock hard) in my mouth, but just shortly, stroked him a few times. I gave him a pair of leather cuffs and he put them on his wrists. New ankle cuffs followed.
I told him to take his arms back and placed the gush on his cock.
I told him on his knees, went up, behind him and closed the cuffs together.
I sat back in the armchair, looked him directly in his face, kissed him and said that "Happy Valentine"
I took the phone awoke his toy, blindfolded him and directed his face to my pussy.
He startet licking my clit, it was wonderful, my feet found his balls or his cocktip teasing there. He startet leaking, I wanted to give him a nice ride on the edge and this toy has prooven that I can handle him very precisely. Sometimes more power sometimes less, when he gets close he starts to breathe very deep and the closer he get the faster he breathes. I got my first orgsams from him but got not too sensitive so he just continued licking.
I could feel him leaking onto my feet. after five or six rides it wanted to finish him but slowly. His breathing intensified and I did not shut off but stayed on the lowest level. He got more and more aroused and suddelny fell aside. I was shocked immediately, tried to catch him pull the toy of and unloked the cuffs.
I am sorry I cried, he recovered soon, we lay in our arms and it took us a minute. He said he expierienced in intensity like never bevor. He put my hand on his cock and said we aren't finished yet. I asked him if he was sure, he said he was, and his cock was too. I told him to keep seeting. I took blankets, removed cuffs and collar. I rolled him on his back and rode him passionately. And we managed to come together.
We cuddled a while, I said again that I am sorry. He said that I can calm down, he will take off my lingery and that we will have a shower. For the rest of the day we calmed down together.
At the next weekend my sister called me, she is two years younger, she lives a two hour drive away, we are talking regularly. During small talk she asked about our Valentine's Day. I said it got almost crashed. What did he do, she asked. No, It was me, can't tell about. Don' be silly, tell! Okay, I said, I made him unconscious with a toy while beeing bound. She laughed, I said, I can't about it.
There was a small break and she said she appreciated my trust to tell her. I feel better now I replied. She asked if she can tell me something intimate too. Okay, I said and then she offered me, that his boyfriend want's to wear a cock cage and started recently. I said that I don't know what to respond right now. Neither does she, was her answer. She asked it we can change the topic, but if she may text me later. we returned to small talk.
 
Hi there

I am back at the keyboard. I had to check if all toys are at home, yes, they are. I took three of them and took a bath. It was very refreshing.
Didn't tell my husband, might be too hot for him this evening.
Just send him a message, he is fine, sitting at the hotel bar and later will see the standard whodunit on Sunday evening.

Let's mention my sister. She is two years younger sometimes a bit of a nerd, working as a software engeneer. She is kind of a digital nomad, travelling a lot for projects but with the pandemic she settled down nearby and mostly worked from home. Well it's still away but in Bavaria. We meet a few times in the year. Since she had been away we met much less in the past.
Last Christmas we met at our parents house and she introduced her boyfriend, a nice guy, he is an army captain in the German forces. We had some smalltalk but the house was crowded, so I don't know much about him.
Following our call after Valentine's Day my sister texted me her story. Her boyfriend lives yet in anoter corner of Bavaria, but is not from Bavaria, came there with the army, lives near the barracks commandng hundred soldiers. They found each other online last autumn, at weekends they are visiting each other. During the week they often had sexting together. Around Christmas he asked if he can tell her something very intimate. He said he saw some chastity porn and ask if she can imagine, that he will wear such a cage during week and not to masturbate, thinking of her. Well, she said, he may think about he with any guilt when wanking and after a while, he may try his cage during the week.
But soon he told her, that he needs to take it off, because it is to risky, wearing it on duty, because combat training bears a risk of beeing injured and things could become very emberassing in case of an accident.
When he visited her around the weekend, he showed her the cage. This was usual from Christmas to our call call after Valentine's Day. They talked a lot, she read something. She wtote this in many small pieces to me till end of February. On one weekend she wanted to get the keys when he arrived on Friday. It took him many attempts but she kept im in. Sunday afternoon she asked him to go to a swimming hall, nobody will notice. Okay he sad, but a bit shy. After they returned to her home, she ordered him to stand still, dropped his pants and gave him a blowjob and swallowed him for the first time at all. Then put the cage back on, called him a good boy and gave him the key back. After that they kissed passionately. Have a nice week and drive savely.

That was her story till beginning of march, since then we started calling and talking about that.
Over twenty years ago we talked about boys and sex, and she thanked her big sister to accompany her with that issue. He will finish his army service end of June and is looking for job offers. They are discussing to move together but non of their two flats is big enough. She is really in love to him, his kinky thing is not strange for her anymore, she starts to enjoy playing but will not go a hard way.

She told, she fells a bit more self confident. I replied, she always was. Sure, she reminds, but commanding him makes her feel stronger and following orders is something he had learnt.

Since beginning of march his successor arrivved and they are handing over the company. So my sister asked if this would meen locking him more consistantly. They agreed to try for thirty days.
The company handover will be next Friday.

Last week my sister called me that it makes her horny, thinking of controlling his cock. Dirty sister, I said, it took just one month of talking to come that way. She told me, she will insist on having him caged one week earlier. Because her pussy will be out of business for a month she will get her an intimate piercing and stopping to shave, while trying to drive him crazy letting him do the procedure.

Slutty girl. Last friday she told me that she took the keys permanentely, the discussed how to handle the emergency key.
During the night to friday I took the decision to follow her road. Having no clue today except not to shave.

Nice evening to everybody. I will have to see the wodunnit too.
 
Hi there

Worked at the company's office for a few hours but avoiding the traffic jam and drove there in the late morning.
Still some light out there, but snowflakes end of March. Don't need this.
Was at a Thai restaurant for hot soup. Walked through the city and called him at the phone. He is a bit bored without playing with toys. Be strong I told him, already beyond half time.

He will come tomorrow by plane, had to take the train yesterday because the airport was on strike already yesterday.

There is an area in the city where the gay scene is present since decades, Freddy Mercury lived there too. Rainboy and pride are also more visible there. Is is considered as a normal neighborhood, not as a dark corner.
In the afternoon I walked there and visited a few shops. First I went to a piercing studio, a bright and friendly one and asked for consultation. I was nervous but the nice lady took it very professional and I felt in good hands. She asked me what I am considering she told me everything and asked if I want to be checked physically. That happend fast everything is fine. I told her, that I will come back tomorrow. Come, when you are ready, she replied.
I thought, I am a tough girl and said I am ready at all, but tomorow is my husbands birthday. Nice present, she smiled.
And now I want to see the jewelry, I said, the exclusive pieces. There was and impressive collection and I found my peace soon, a banana with a ball at the top and a ginuine pearl at the bottom, massive gold. The price is around the toys from my birthday together. She placed it very decorative in a small present box and I made an appointment tomorrow 6pm.
I left the studio with a smile.

It took me just a few meters to a sex shop, there was some heavy stuff the leather guys in the shopping window, but from their online shop I knew that there are having lots of different thing in stock.
I went inside and asked for consultation too. I asked a young woman working there and she showed me the collection of chastity cages and answered my newbee questions about how to get it placed.
I told her that I will come back tomorrow with my husband and that it will be a present. You are not a wallflower, she said, smiling. I told her about his birthday and showed her my present. She said she will help us in her fiendliest and professional way. And I said we will attend around half pat six.

I am excited.
 
So, I arranged a very formal business dress code for tomorrow, in dark blue, his favourite colour. including black stockings, strpas, suspender belt but a white silk thong.
He will return tomorrow afternoon and pick me up at my office around four o clock to have some coffee and cake.

I don't think, I can sleep well this night, I will need the support of toys.

Sleep well