IMPORTANT INFORMATION Another scam alert

L-u-c-y

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Despite warnings it appears another scammer has been at work in the For Sale forum.

If you have had any dealings with Boshuter please let me know.

They also are associated with the following accounts:

Kingerxi

87dtuna

Max347

I have set the For Sale forum so all new threads will have to be moderated before going live.


 
Not at first. But at the end i did. He has scammed Me for 380 euro. I have reportet to the Danish police, my bank and PayPal

Let us know if you have any luck reclaiming your money.

I have blocked his other accounts but left his main one active (with a warning) so people can still communicate with him and try and get their money back.
 
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To those who have been scammed. What was the sequence of events, and what should people look out for?

@L-u-c-y is it possible to restrict seller privileges until a member reaches a certain level (would the trophy system work)? Then, only someone actively engaged in the community can advertise. Same for the KH/Sub forum therefore preventing the men or Findommes that have just joined from posting in the classified section. I think it would result in less admin, and discourage the phishing behaviour in the first place, as it would be too much work.
 
Though ideally it might be better to just restrict them from starting a thread in those forums, but allowing them to respond to a thread created by a long-term member.
 
To those who have been scammed. What was the sequence of events, and what should people look out for?

@L-u-c-y is it possible to restrict seller privileges until a member reaches a certain level (would the trophy system work)? Then, only someone actively engaged in the community can advertise. Same for the KH/Sub forum therefore preventing the men or Findommes that have just joined from posting in the classified section. I think it would result in less admin, and discourage the phishing behaviour in the first place, as it would be too much work.
I think chastityforums has this policy, it makes sense to me, be here for a while before you can just lob up and try to sell something. CM is a great community, I’ve bought and sold here with no problems, but it relies on trust and honesty for it to work.
 
All new posts on the For Sale group will have to be checked by a moderator. If any new member tries to sell an expensive item it will be obvious to us and they will be banned.
 
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What's your opinion of an expensive item? As you know.most custom chastity devices are expensive. Granted most will never get back what they paid for such item, but again at what point is an item considered expensive. Just asking since I know I have multiple cages that don't quite fit well and don't where all custom stainless steel ones from all of the world, so now I guess if I ever did want to sell them I have to use eBay, vs using this platform and having direct access to people who would be more likely to buy them.

I'm not against what youre doing just saying it's going to make those who are real and selling a real product that much harder to sell it if being banned based on a one size fits all price limit on for sale items or you'll be banned kind of doesn't make sense to me. Granted I'm sure that's not what it will be I'm sure you and the other moderators will have to fine tune it and find what works best for protecting everyone involved.
 
What's your opinion of an expensive item? As you know.most custom chastity devices are expensive. Granted most will never get back what they paid for such item, but again at what point is an item considered expensive. Just asking since I know I have multiple cages that don't quite fit well and don't where all custom stainless steel ones from all of the world, so now I guess if I ever did want to sell them I have to use eBay, vs using this platform and having direct access to people who would be more likely to buy them.

I'm not against what youre doing just saying it's going to make those who are real and selling a real product that much harder to sell it if being banned based on a one size fits all price limit on for sale items or you'll be banned kind of doesn't make sense to me. Granted I'm sure that's not what it will be I'm sure you and the other moderators will have to fine tune it and find what works best for protecting everyone involved.

I'm talking about banning people who join and then a few days later try to sell a $800 item, as happened here.
 
I'm talking about banning people who join and then a few days later try to sell a $800 item, as happened here.

See that makes sense. Like I said I'm sure you and the other moderators had a more specific guide line for who and how you would choose to ban an individual. Thank you for clarifying
 
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I can absolutely feel for those who are getting conned. I remember me selling a signed idol photo book when I was in my uni and a person who seemed to be reputable enough on that forum asked me to ship the item to him first. The person went silent as soon as the item was dispatched. Gosh I should have reported that to the police.