Sounds like an oxymoron I know.
Brief history of my wife and I. She is sexually submissive and is totally devoted to me. Her devotion is why I married her. When we first met I was fascinated with BDSM, mostly having a pretty girl tied up and helpless to my sexual whims. We have also done some swinging. I will add shes has a strong personality outside of the bedroom/dungeon. Her one big weakness is jealousy, even though I have never given her a reason to be jealous. I am not a flirt and would never do anything to to purposely hurt our relations. I truly do love her.
As with most couples time passes and sex wanes. I have never believed in sexual monogamy. A 3-some or regular swinging is difficult. My thought is it's difficult for 2 people to be compatible, not to mention 3 or more people.
So here we are, we rarely have intercourse, which she misses as do I. To relieve my load I have turned to porn more and more, which is not healthy for our relationship. It is something she has accepted, but is not happy about it. I do not believe I am addicted to porn/masturbation, because I can go over week without release.
Here is my thought to help correct my activities. Although I am the alpha around the house, put me in chastity to correct my behavior when it's needed. So not full time, but only when I am behaving poorly. That way my load will be there ready for her when she wants it. I know this sounds like a half-way measure, but I could never be a submissive and she could never be a FemDom. I think I just need some behavior modification.
Brief history of my wife and I. She is sexually submissive and is totally devoted to me. Her devotion is why I married her. When we first met I was fascinated with BDSM, mostly having a pretty girl tied up and helpless to my sexual whims. We have also done some swinging. I will add shes has a strong personality outside of the bedroom/dungeon. Her one big weakness is jealousy, even though I have never given her a reason to be jealous. I am not a flirt and would never do anything to to purposely hurt our relations. I truly do love her.
As with most couples time passes and sex wanes. I have never believed in sexual monogamy. A 3-some or regular swinging is difficult. My thought is it's difficult for 2 people to be compatible, not to mention 3 or more people.
So here we are, we rarely have intercourse, which she misses as do I. To relieve my load I have turned to porn more and more, which is not healthy for our relationship. It is something she has accepted, but is not happy about it. I do not believe I am addicted to porn/masturbation, because I can go over week without release.
Here is my thought to help correct my activities. Although I am the alpha around the house, put me in chastity to correct my behavior when it's needed. So not full time, but only when I am behaving poorly. That way my load will be there ready for her when she wants it. I know this sounds like a half-way measure, but I could never be a submissive and she could never be a FemDom. I think I just need some behavior modification.