Chastity saved me from a very awkward moment...

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I've been in this lifestyle for about 10 months and just this morning I decided to say that I'm "Permanently Locked" because I can't control my urges to jerk off. If I'm out of the cage for even a minute when it's not cleaning time then I'll end up wanking off out of pure impulsiveness.

But this afternoon, I was saved from a very humiliating situation! My last orgasm was in my cage 3 weeks ago, so you can probably imagine, I'm loaded, horny AF and climbing the walls now. I've been wanting to jerk off all day, but I made it extremely difficult (not impossible, just not worth the trouble) to get my keys for a quick wank... It's a good thing I did, because one of my relatives figured it would be a good idea to pop his head through the window and crash my porn session while I was sitting at my PC. If I had been jerking off, he would've caught me for certain and I would've never heard the end of it. Very thankfully, I'm locked and secure and kept my pants on the whole time, so that relative is none the wiser. :+1:

I always said my cock cage was my friend, but now I LOVE my cage! LOL! Thank you, chastity! :rolleyes::cool::D
 
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Jail Bird said:
My wife has said a 1000 times how my belt is on for my safety and protection. Looks like yours is too :)
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Yes, exactly! I locked myself up because I have a self-control problem and just can't keep my hands off of my cock. But unlike most guys, I had to the balls to actually go through with it (pun intended). ;):+1:

Speaking of balls, I feel soooooo heavy this morning... :(
I'm going to have to wear my chastity strap to work today to give my cage some support.
 
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A new steel "micro" cage arrived yesterday and I swapped to it. So far, so great! I slept in it just fine and even though I had a night time erection, I didn't even feel it. It's working exactly as I hoped it would so if I can wear it for an entire week with no problems, then it'll be my new "skin" ;)

Here it is:
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Isopropylforyou said:
Just a suggestion, you might want to start researching the effect porn has on your brain and how it effects your perception with regards to relationships, sex and Women.

Just my 2 cents.
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Thank you for that, but if you go to my profile and read my background, then you'll understand why I am the way I am.
 
Isopropylforyou said:
So the question becomes, are you going to do this for the rest of your life or are you going to prepare yourself to find a partner in this lifestyle?
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My most honest answer to that is I'm doing this until my situation changes... I won't get into that, but a real relationship wouldn't work out for me, unless I move out of this residence and I don't have the means to do it right now. If the right woman were to come along and offer to split the expense of finding a place together, then I'm game. So, hopefully things will change down the line, but for now it's just not doable by myself.
 
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I gotta be honest I don't understand the no dating or relationships because of where you live thing. You don't have immediately move in with someone, that takes time. She might even have a place you could move to split bills. Is it that you don't want a relationship? If so that's fine many people don't.
 
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Mr_anonymous said:
I gotta be honest I don't understand the no dating or relationships because of where you live thing. You don't have immediately move in with someone, that takes time. She might even have a place you could move to split bills. Is it that you don't want a relationship? If so that's fine many people don't.
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Well, I'm not actively looking for a partner... I'm feeling just fine without one, but I think I'd be a fool to reject the right woman if she were to find me.
 
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Mr_anonymous said:
That's fair. In honesty I don't think most lasting relationships happen when someone is looking for them.
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Yes, I know exactly what you mean... My older brother irl said for years he moved out of the city away from large crowds because he just wanted to be left alone. Over time, he started talking to this girl on the volleyball team they both worked for, and she would eventually become my sister in-law, but neither were looking for a relationship at the time. They just talked and found they had mutual non-sexual interests and a couple years later, she moved in with him and a few years further down, they got married. They don't have any kids because they didn't marry for sex. They married for the company they provide each other.
 
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CS2 said:
I have tried similar before and I find them uncomfortable I get all squished at the end and I im by no means big lol plus they are so heavy for their size and im usually slap in the middle of ring sizes on these off the shelf metal ones :(
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Sounds like you have an uncommon ring size... As for being heavy for their sizes, the smaller cages are lighter overall because they contain less metal and in the evening when things "relax" down there, my cage can slump down. When I'm at home just chilling, it's no big deal... But when I'm at work or on the move, then slumping can become a real problem. An overall lighter cage helps but doesn't solve it entirely. That's what my elastic chastity strap is for... In fact, I'm wearing the strap right now on the Tight setting as a test, and it's even more comfortable with this micro cage than my Cage of Shame is. So chalk up another one for the Micro Chastity Cage! :+1:
 
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CS2 said:
I think my issue with them other than the ring size is the width I end up kind of folded, may try something like this but a bit narrower.

Oh BTW I found you a new strap lol :)

https://www.etsy.com/uk/shop/LockedInLace?from_page=listing
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Nice! But I don't wear panties... My chastity is masculine and not sissifying. I only paid $8 for my strap and I can have another delivered tomorrow via Amazon Prime if this one snaps on me.
 
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I had the strap for my heavier metal cages. Personally didn't like it. Made me feel too feminine or something.
 
I admit, wearing the strap does make me feel like a dirty little slut, but it has a strange appeal to me, in spite of me saying my chastity is masculine and not feminine. Just one of them "things" I suppose. *shrug*

Oh wow... Talking about it is making me start to swell in my cage! LOL! Here we go! :D
 
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PornAddict103 said:
Well, I'm not actively looking for a partner... I'm feeling just fine without one, but I think I'd be a fool to reject the right woman if she were to find me.
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I remember this dialogue a few weeks ago.
As you report, I understand that you are feeling better now than before March. So just keep it going.
You hold your own keys but keep the cage on while watching porn. That sounds like good self-motivation.
 
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