Claustrophobic?

[OrdinaryGuy]

Anyone ever feel this way at times?

Maybe after being locked without an erection for a long time, you sort of get in your head about feeling trapped? And then that sort of transitions into wanting to tear the cage off cause you just need out? Like right now. And maybe you start to panic a little?

My wife helped a lot, but it took more than words to calm me down. Curious how any of you might cope with that. It was a new one for me.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

I think that's normal. Most days I forget I'm caged then out nowhere it just don't fit right or annoys me for a day. I deal with it because what choice do I have. Kinda figure it's part of it.

 

[true42]

Never had that. Just the opposite, which is that I felt exposed or in danger when I wasn't wearing it.

 

[Jay Sub]

Never had that. Just the opposite, which is that I felt exposed or in danger when I wasn't wearing it.

My first cage broke in 4 days, a CB clone, I was devastated, almost in tears. Yeah, sometimes I'm so horny I wanna tear it off, usually in the morning, but it subside if I get on with my day. But I'm with you, I feel safer locked, and weird not. I'm going through customs in a couple of days, and my wife suggested taking it off early. I haven't told her yet, but the more I think about it the more anxious I feel, I want it off for the minimal time possible, even when given permission. I'm sort of surprised at myself.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

I'm more comfortable with it on generally. Like I usually put it on without being told on my day out. There's times though I just want this freaking thing off me like nothing else.

 

[denied_one]

Anyone ever feel this way at times?

Maybe after being locked without an erection for a long time, you sort of get in your head about feeling trapped? And then that sort of transitions into wanting to tear the cage off cause you just need out? Like right now. And maybe you start to panic a little?

My wife helped a lot, but it took more than words to calm me down. Curious how any of you might cope with that. It was a new one for me.

How did She calm you down?

 

[PornAddict103]

Anyone ever feel this way at times?

Maybe after being locked without an erection for a long time, you sort of get in your head about feeling trapped? And then that sort of transitions into wanting to tear the cage off cause you just need out? Like right now. And maybe you start to panic a little?

My wife helped a lot, but it took more than words to calm me down. Curious how any of you might cope with that. It was a new one for me.

I never felt that before... The only time I really want out is when I haven't cum in a long time and I'm feeling desperate for any kind of orgasm, even a ruined one. That usually takes longer than a full month.

 

[OrdinaryGuy]

My first cage broke in 4 days, a CB clone, I was devastated, almost in tears. Yeah, sometimes I'm so horny I wanna tear it off, usually in the morning, but it subside if I get on with my day. But I'm with you, I feel safer locked, and weird not. I'm going through customs in a couple of days, and my wife suggested taking it off early. I haven't told her yet, but the more I think about it the more anxious I feel, I want it off for the minimal time possible, even when given permission. I'm sort of surprised at myself.

Interesting. I didn't feel safer with it, and it so feels like a liability in maybe ways... But I will get phantom sensations for awhile after removal after a long lockup... Like I'm still wearing it.

The horniness things I've experienced before. But this was different. Like it felt like I was handcuffed and needed to be free. Borderline panic attack. Like I needed to stretch and I'm being held down and I can't breath. Really felt trapped.

 

[M@rcellus]

My first cage broke in 4 days, a CB clone, I was devastated, almost in tears. Yeah, sometimes I'm so horny I wanna tear it off, usually in the morning, but it subside if I get on with my day. But I'm with you, I feel safer locked, and weird not. I'm going through customs in a couple of days, and my wife suggested taking it off early. I haven't told her yet, but the more I think about it the more anxious I feel, I want it off for the minimal time possible, even when given permission. I'm sort of surprised at myself.

You're not going through customs you're going through airport security. These are private sector people with no statutory powers who are paid for by the airport operators. They seize yogurts regardless of the person standing in front of them and hope for the best. Customs officers on the other hand are commissioned by the king with all the powers of the land required to keep society in whatever status quo the king and parliament desire. If you're visiting civilised places customs officers won't be interested in what's clamped on to your bits. We weighed french wool coming up from the Thames river and taxed it. Then taught the world how to maintain their economy and rule of law. Drugs and the desire to illegally emmigrate came later.

 

[Jay Sub]

Interesting. I didn't feel safer with it, and it so feels like a liability in maybe ways... But I will get phantom sensations for awhile after removal after a long lockup... Like I'm still wearing it.

The horniness things I've experienced before. But this was different. Like it felt like I was handcuffed and needed to be free. Borderline panic attack. Like I needed to stretch and I'm being held down and I can't breath. Really felt trapped.

Maybe you need the honour system, and caged isn't right for you?

 

[Jay Sub]

You're not going through customs you're going through airport security. These are private sector people with no statutory powers who are paid for by the airport operators. They seize yogurts regardless of the person standing in front of them and hope for the best. Customs officers on the other hand are commissioned by the king with all the powers of the land required to keep society in whatever status quo the king and parliament desire. If you're visiting civilised places customs officers won't be interested in what's clamped on to your bits. We weighed french wool coming up from the Thames river and taxed it. Then taught the world how to maintain their economy and rule of law. Drugs and the desire to illegally immigrate came later.

His Majesty's Customs I believe. We're going by car in Le Tunnel. After following the discussion about TSA, I'm not going to try and slow everyone down. It might be slow for me anyway, I have to go through the Red Channel in the UK, as I need to take my Medical Cannabis. French Customs said, just go through the Green.

 

[OrdinaryGuy]

Maybe you need the honour system, and caged isn't right for you?

Boy do I wish that was an option...

 

[Queens servant73]

I had a couple instances of mild panic / claustrophobia feelings early on as we started getting more serious about longer lockups. But it’s just been a part of me for the last few years now

 

[M@rcellus]

His Majesty's Customs I believe. We're going by car in Le Tunnel. After following the discussion about TSA, I'm not going to try and slow everyone down. It might be slow for me anyway, I have to go through the Red Channel in the UK, as I need to take my Medical Cannabis. French Customs said, just go through the Green.

Medical cannabis is a foreign customs issue for sure. Hopefully it goes OK. I'm afraid no love lost between uk and eu border control and it's the public that bear the brunt. If you're English just be super-nice

 

[Jay Sub]

I had a couple instances of mild panic / claustrophobia feelings early on as we started getting more serious about longer lockups. But it’s just been a part of me for the last few years now

I think we end up owning that feeling. It's what brought us here in the first place. Be Careful What You Wish For all over again. It's what drives the hormones that make male chastity so effective.

 

[PornAddict103]

Be Careful What You Wish For all over again. It's what drives the hormones that make male chastity so effective.

You can say that again. LOL.

 

[Jay Sub]

You can say that again. LOL.

Be Careful What You Wish For!

 

[denied_one]

@OrdinaryGuy didn't wish for this...

 

[Jay Sub]

@OrdinaryGuy didn't wish for this...

Oh was it her idea?

 

[M@rcellus]

@OrdinaryGuy didn't wish for this...

I've said that. My mistress says, "you love it." So I don't think I do love chastity 100% of the time. When she mentions she has me locked or exerts her authority in anyway I get my pathetic 1 inch erection in the cage. I take that as meaning I am so turned on by being in the cage that I don't deserve any more erections or orgasms.

 

[denied_one]

Oh was it her idea?

@OrdinaryGuy do you feel like tackling this??

 

[NowIveDoneIt]

I wouldn't say I have ever felt trapped. I have desperately wanted to get out and grab that fucking erection- Usually in the morning when testosterone is boiling over. How many times have I woken and so wanted to ask my wife if maybe I could stretch. I'd give her a 30% chance she would say yes but I have taken a stance of not asking to be released unless I need a trim.

There are some days where things are just not right for some reason. A ball aches or something just feels off and the whole day seems to revolve around it. I attribute it to probably sleeping wrong and things were pressed in a way they shouldn't be. I'd say that happens once every 4-6 months. Every once in a while I just ask for a breather because it isn't getting better and usually by the second day I'm all good.

OP- you on the other hand are facing something else. I wanted to be here (still not sure why- I think I broke a mental sprocket), you on the other hand didn't. I can only imagine what has transpired since your journal was deleted but I'm sure life isn't easy for you right now.

 

[sissymaid_dulcie]

Anyone ever feel this way at times?

Maybe after being locked without an erection for a long time, you sort of get in your head about feeling trapped? And then that sort of transitions into wanting to tear the cage off cause you just need out? Like right now. And maybe you start to panic a little?

My wife helped a lot, but it took more than words to calm me down. Curious how any of you might cope with that. It was a new one for me.

after a while i'm more relationship and service oriented. when it does get to be too much i ask my Keyholder to indulge me in a fetish of mine that's intended to calm me down. and/or i'll serve while wearing something from my playtex collection. or i'll very politely ask to play pin cushion...

 

[JaySaysYes]

Right at the start I experienced the almost-panic of wanting the cage off.

More recently I said I felt trapped, perhaps even imprisoned, by my horny feelings. She teminded me that I need to meditate and it did make me feel better.

I love being caged by her, and how it makes us as horny as teenagers again.

 

[Mr_anonymous]

I wouldn't say I have ever felt trapped. I have desperately wanted to get out and grab that fucking erection- Usually in the morning when testosterone is boiling over. How many times have I woken and so wanted to ask my wife if maybe I could stretch. I'd give her a 30% chance she would say yes but I have taken a stance of not asking to be released unless I need a trim.

There are some days where things are just not right for some reason. A ball aches or something just feels off and the whole day seems to revolve around it. I attribute it to probably sleeping wrong and things were pressed in a way they shouldn't be. I'd say that happens once every 4-6 months. Every once in a while I just ask for a breather because it isn't getting better and usually by the second day I'm all good.

OP- you on the other hand are facing something else. I wanted to be here (still not sure why- I think I broke a mental sprocket), you on the other hand didn't. I can only imagine what has transpired since your journal was deleted but I'm sure life isn't easy for you right now.

Yeah it seems most of us asked for this so it's our burden to bear. That's why I was sympathetic in his journal, he didn't. I can't imagine the frustration of not being your idea and stuck in it or facing an unhappy kh.