Good day all, I so enjoy reading and researching your stories and relationships. I am married to a wonderful woman who is very vanilla-like in her interests. In contrast, I am a lifelong crossdresser, admirer of strong and assertive people, and have a wide submissive streak. I have been compensating for the differences at home with an active participation in BDSMLR, Flickr and Fictionmania sites. I am envious of the FLR patrons here. At 55, I know that the days forward are less than those looking back, so I am working to make the most if each day. This includes periods of self imposed chastity with my Bon 4 mini, walking the wire of gender fluidity with growing out and styling my hair into a cute pixie with highlights, always in panties, and living vicariously through you. Currently reading The New Girl by Rhiannon Styles for inspiration. Be safe, be yourselves and be happy.












