If it was entirely up to her I'd probably never be unlocked. My days out are to keep me sane though few and far between. All I'd have to say is I want to skip this one. She'd have zero problem holding me to it. There'd be no changing my mind or whinging about it is my hesitation to do so.
Not really. Her needs are met and beyond. We are partners not some dom/sub thing. My input and what I want out of it matters. If it was all about me I'd agree with this.
No criticism, it’s similar to any sort of personal best. If you stop, you have to start over. It’s why we she lets me out a couple of times a week because she wants to play and then immediately back in again. A couple of decades ago when we went for weeks and months at a time, she commented “You don’t need a keyholder for this you need a key safe with a timer”. Thus ended extensive lockups. It’s now all up to her and the sex in all its forms is great! But I remember the addiction to what we used to do, it was similar to distance running for me.
That's not a bad idea actually. I get out for the day thanksgiving if I want. It's not like I must get off. She actually prefers that only happens caged anyway. A day to stretch with no release would pretty much mean no drop at all.
Congratulation on 60 days. I've not managed anything like that, so maybe I should not say this but but it might help you decide. Most would say that it should be up to her. If you are sure she would prefer to keep you locked and you think you can manage it, then the honorable thing to do would be to at least offer to skip the release. It would only take a couple of minutes then you can stop worrying about it.
I can be out for 24 hours for thanksgiving. I'll most likely take advantage of it with the exception I may cage up for thanksgiving stuff and sleep free be nice.
It's set on national holidays. Thanksgiving, yule, valentines etc. Aside from that she doesn't care what I do as long as I abide by the agreement and don't whinge or pester her.
