We had the talk last night I knew was coming. She's no longer interested in piv or anything considered traditional sex except on rare occasions in her words. She's starting menopause and never had a high sex drive so not a surprise. Still weird hearing her say it making it real. She does still desire in her words the things we do now and has assured me that won't change. I told her I'm fine with this and was supportive. Just that my concern she'd lose interest in everything. She pretty convincingly said I love the things we do now just don't expect to ever go back to how things were or getting off on a regular basis. Could be worse alot of people are stuck in sexless marriage. At least in my case I still get attention and she gets pampered. Seems like a practical along with fun solution to it all.
