I am an almost complete newbie in this - I have only ever spent one night locked in delicious torture... and I have a question on the way to go.
Many chastity devices, it seems, prevent you from having an erection. On the plus side, I can see that it would instil a sense of obedience and being owned but I have my doubts about it on two counts. I wonder if the frustration of having an erection that cannot be relieved is more intense than not being able to have one. I guess that is my main question to more experienced players. My big concern, also, is that I have had erectile difficulties in the past, which I know were emotionally based rather than a physical problem and I have no desire to return there. I worry that being trained not to have erections is the last thing I need.
By the way, my one night of torture was achieved simply be putting a padlock through a frenulum piercing. Unfortunately the result of that was a much larger than desired hole in my frenulum and some loss of sensation :-( I also found that masturbation has a way of being possibly in the most unlikely circumstances! I have tried a couple of tube-style devices and have found them uncomfortable to the point of agony. I am tempted by the new silicon device (name escapes me for the mo) but it looks like that would prevent erections..
Many chastity devices, it seems, prevent you from having an erection. On the plus side, I can see that it would instil a sense of obedience and being owned but I have my doubts about it on two counts. I wonder if the frustration of having an erection that cannot be relieved is more intense than not being able to have one. I guess that is my main question to more experienced players. My big concern, also, is that I have had erectile difficulties in the past, which I know were emotionally based rather than a physical problem and I have no desire to return there. I worry that being trained not to have erections is the last thing I need.
By the way, my one night of torture was achieved simply be putting a padlock through a frenulum piercing. Unfortunately the result of that was a much larger than desired hole in my frenulum and some loss of sensation :-( I also found that masturbation has a way of being possibly in the most unlikely circumstances! I have tried a couple of tube-style devices and have found them uncomfortable to the point of agony. I am tempted by the new silicon device (name escapes me for the mo) but it looks like that would prevent erections..