My girlfriend of nearly two years has recently brought up chastity. Or rather, she’s been bringing it up occasionally and I recently ‘fessed up about my fantasies. She’s known about my interest in it chastity since about 3 months into our relationship, albeit vaguely.
I was open with my other kinks when we were sharing them but she knew I was holding something back. When I finally did muster the courage to tell her about chastity she instantly perked up. She immediately asked “Who gets to hold the key? Do I hold the key?” All why smiling—she already knew what chastity was, I didn’t have to explain it!
We played around with chastity some but it was short lived. I had previously pulled out of the ball trap devices so the illusion of chastity was shattered before I even met her. I also wasn’t entirely comfortable being in a submissive position. Regardless, I ended up pulling out and masturbating, she could tell. Afterward, she had negative feelings about the chastity (rightfully so) and we didn’t pursue it further.
That was fine with me, I’ve mostly just fantasized about it; it’s never been a part of my relationships in the past.
We’ve been doing the long distance thing since December, seeing each other when we can, but I’m working nights, she’s on days, and it’s a 4 hour flight. The distance has been a challenge and we’ve been trying to spice things up.
There’s been a lot more phone sex, FaceTime, masturbating together, dirty talk, more communication too. She’s doing a lot to bring me out of my shell and I’ve felt comfortable enough to finally give her a strait answer when she brings up chastity. I’ve mentioned about a piercing once or twice before. And she knew that the chastity cages I’ve got aren’t secure.
So, after asking about chastity again she just strait up asked me if we need to visit a tattoo parlor when she comes up to visit in July. She asked me if I want her to be there for a PA piercing.
The timing is actually perfect. It wouldn’t impact our sex life as it’ll be about a month before I’d fly home to visit her again. The long distance would give it time to heal/stretch.
Anyway, we talked about chastity. She gets off to the idea of me in chastity, her on top of me masturbating, with me eating her out. That kind of thing. We discussed some logistics about being in chastity I can’t get out of. It sounds like I’d things were to progress to the point where I’d be in a chastity cage secured with a PA that I’d be wearing it unless she wanted to play with my (her??) penis. Like, only let out at her discretion. Which is what I want, I think.
Fuck, the idea of not being able to get off without her is so intoxicating. Not being able to masturbate without her allowing it. Being so horny that I’d do anything she wants to please her.
I asked her some days later if she was serious about the chastity, and she said yes. I know she’s had some insecurities about this long distance thing. I don’t know what’s driving this now, if she likes the idea of me in chastity for that reason. She said that she wants me in chastity any time I’m not with her.
I think I’m going to pursue the PA. Do it with her while she’s here visiting. By the time my contract work is done and I’m back home for good it should be healed and stretched, or at least most of the way to being able to be used with chastity. I’ve got some concerns about having to travel again and her not being with me. I don’t think she’s going to want me to have a spare key but it isn’t practical.
Suppose we’ll see in a few weeks how things proceed!
I was open with my other kinks when we were sharing them but she knew I was holding something back. When I finally did muster the courage to tell her about chastity she instantly perked up. She immediately asked “Who gets to hold the key? Do I hold the key?” All why smiling—she already knew what chastity was, I didn’t have to explain it!
We played around with chastity some but it was short lived. I had previously pulled out of the ball trap devices so the illusion of chastity was shattered before I even met her. I also wasn’t entirely comfortable being in a submissive position. Regardless, I ended up pulling out and masturbating, she could tell. Afterward, she had negative feelings about the chastity (rightfully so) and we didn’t pursue it further.
That was fine with me, I’ve mostly just fantasized about it; it’s never been a part of my relationships in the past.
We’ve been doing the long distance thing since December, seeing each other when we can, but I’m working nights, she’s on days, and it’s a 4 hour flight. The distance has been a challenge and we’ve been trying to spice things up.
There’s been a lot more phone sex, FaceTime, masturbating together, dirty talk, more communication too. She’s doing a lot to bring me out of my shell and I’ve felt comfortable enough to finally give her a strait answer when she brings up chastity. I’ve mentioned about a piercing once or twice before. And she knew that the chastity cages I’ve got aren’t secure.
So, after asking about chastity again she just strait up asked me if we need to visit a tattoo parlor when she comes up to visit in July. She asked me if I want her to be there for a PA piercing.
The timing is actually perfect. It wouldn’t impact our sex life as it’ll be about a month before I’d fly home to visit her again. The long distance would give it time to heal/stretch.
Anyway, we talked about chastity. She gets off to the idea of me in chastity, her on top of me masturbating, with me eating her out. That kind of thing. We discussed some logistics about being in chastity I can’t get out of. It sounds like I’d things were to progress to the point where I’d be in a chastity cage secured with a PA that I’d be wearing it unless she wanted to play with my (her??) penis. Like, only let out at her discretion. Which is what I want, I think.
Fuck, the idea of not being able to get off without her is so intoxicating. Not being able to masturbate without her allowing it. Being so horny that I’d do anything she wants to please her.
I asked her some days later if she was serious about the chastity, and she said yes. I know she’s had some insecurities about this long distance thing. I don’t know what’s driving this now, if she likes the idea of me in chastity for that reason. She said that she wants me in chastity any time I’m not with her.
I think I’m going to pursue the PA. Do it with her while she’s here visiting. By the time my contract work is done and I’m back home for good it should be healed and stretched, or at least most of the way to being able to be used with chastity. I’ve got some concerns about having to travel again and her not being with me. I don’t think she’s going to want me to have a spare key but it isn’t practical.
Suppose we’ll see in a few weeks how things proceed!