This happened last night. A quick introduction first. My wife and I are in our mid 40s, married with little kids, both professionals. Prior having kids we had an outstanding sex life with lots of kinky components in it like fisting and bondage, although not chastity. Kids, our demanding careers and life events made our sex life drop very low. We still have sex, but much more rarely and always in the most vanilla possible.
Over the last couple of years I have been intrigued by the idea of chastity and its reputation of greatly changing the emotional connection within the couple. I bought a few chastity devices, Kink3D Cobra S seems to be the only one that I tolerate so far. I brought up the idea of chastity to my wife a few months ago. She first laughed and couldn’t understand why I wanted it. One complication in our relation is that we are both sexually submissive, so she didn’t immediately get the vibe of putting me in chastity. She didn’t reject the idea though, and once we used it during sex: she would keep me locked up until I made her cum in other ways. Then she unlocked be and asked to please with traditional penetration. This was a couple of months ago.
Then last night, for some reason I was sooooo horny that I couldn’t sleep. My wife was trying to sleep, she also couldn’t sleep but for other reasons. She was trying to sleep and was not in the mood for sex at all. Looking at her in bed in the dark, beautiful, would only make my horniness worse. I tried to seduce her into a massage, kisses and caresses, but she would just get more annoyed at me for not letting her sleep. So I had a crazy idea, I told her “I am very sorry, I don’t know why but tonight I am incredibly horny. I see you are not in the mood for play and are getty mad at me. This is a crazy idea but perhaps I could wear my chastity cage and see if it makes me calm down”. Expecting a negative reply that she didn’t want to play any kinky game because she was too tired, to my surprise she replied “Oh OK, yes!”. I was shocked, so I asked confirmation “is it OK if I wear my chastity cage and give you the key?” She replied immediately and briefly “Yes sure!” So I got off bed, grabbed my Cobra cage, went to the bathroom and forced it on my half erected penis. I twas a bit painful for the first 5-10 minutes until I lost the erection. Then I went back to bed and gave her the key. She immediately grabbed it and put it in the drawer of her night stand and laid back to bed. We kissed lovingly then she told me to let her sleep.
I couldn’t sleep much. The cage helped only that much on my horniness. It suppressed my erections, but I was constantly thinking at what just happened: my lovely wife just decided that putting a chastity cage is the normal way of dealing with a horny husband.
This morning when the alarm got off we kissed and hugged, she looked at me and asked if I was still caged. Of course I was. So she asked “Do you want to stay caged today?” I wanted it, but first I told her all the emotions I went thought overnight when she got on board with caging me to take care of my unwanted horniness. The we both agreed to give it a try and keep me caged for the rest of the day. She was concerned about safety, so she put one of the two keys in a sealed envelope signed by her with “I Love You” on the tape. The second key is on her work key ring, she will be working till late tonight. Before leaving the house this morning, she came to me and showed me the key on her work key ring. She also said “I will release you next time I want sex, could be tonight”. It is possible, but I don’t know if she means it for real that my release is undecided.
Although it was suggested by me, this is the first time I get caged to be denied due to a misalignment of sexual desire between us. So far I like it. This is also the longest amount of time I have been caged. Previously it has always been 5-6 hr no more than that. Not it is since last night at 1am and it’s going to be at least till tonight around midnight. My penis is fine but my balls are a bit sore, I might need to get some extra recommendations in this forum regarding this.
I know my story is just a little step compared to the forum members that are chaste 24/7. But it was an emotionally pleasant experience.
Over the last couple of years I have been intrigued by the idea of chastity and its reputation of greatly changing the emotional connection within the couple. I bought a few chastity devices, Kink3D Cobra S seems to be the only one that I tolerate so far. I brought up the idea of chastity to my wife a few months ago. She first laughed and couldn’t understand why I wanted it. One complication in our relation is that we are both sexually submissive, so she didn’t immediately get the vibe of putting me in chastity. She didn’t reject the idea though, and once we used it during sex: she would keep me locked up until I made her cum in other ways. Then she unlocked be and asked to please with traditional penetration. This was a couple of months ago.
Then last night, for some reason I was sooooo horny that I couldn’t sleep. My wife was trying to sleep, she also couldn’t sleep but for other reasons. She was trying to sleep and was not in the mood for sex at all. Looking at her in bed in the dark, beautiful, would only make my horniness worse. I tried to seduce her into a massage, kisses and caresses, but she would just get more annoyed at me for not letting her sleep. So I had a crazy idea, I told her “I am very sorry, I don’t know why but tonight I am incredibly horny. I see you are not in the mood for play and are getty mad at me. This is a crazy idea but perhaps I could wear my chastity cage and see if it makes me calm down”. Expecting a negative reply that she didn’t want to play any kinky game because she was too tired, to my surprise she replied “Oh OK, yes!”. I was shocked, so I asked confirmation “is it OK if I wear my chastity cage and give you the key?” She replied immediately and briefly “Yes sure!” So I got off bed, grabbed my Cobra cage, went to the bathroom and forced it on my half erected penis. I twas a bit painful for the first 5-10 minutes until I lost the erection. Then I went back to bed and gave her the key. She immediately grabbed it and put it in the drawer of her night stand and laid back to bed. We kissed lovingly then she told me to let her sleep.
I couldn’t sleep much. The cage helped only that much on my horniness. It suppressed my erections, but I was constantly thinking at what just happened: my lovely wife just decided that putting a chastity cage is the normal way of dealing with a horny husband.
This morning when the alarm got off we kissed and hugged, she looked at me and asked if I was still caged. Of course I was. So she asked “Do you want to stay caged today?” I wanted it, but first I told her all the emotions I went thought overnight when she got on board with caging me to take care of my unwanted horniness. The we both agreed to give it a try and keep me caged for the rest of the day. She was concerned about safety, so she put one of the two keys in a sealed envelope signed by her with “I Love You” on the tape. The second key is on her work key ring, she will be working till late tonight. Before leaving the house this morning, she came to me and showed me the key on her work key ring. She also said “I will release you next time I want sex, could be tonight”. It is possible, but I don’t know if she means it for real that my release is undecided.
Although it was suggested by me, this is the first time I get caged to be denied due to a misalignment of sexual desire between us. So far I like it. This is also the longest amount of time I have been caged. Previously it has always been 5-6 hr no more than that. Not it is since last night at 1am and it’s going to be at least till tonight around midnight. My penis is fine but my balls are a bit sore, I might need to get some extra recommendations in this forum regarding this.
I know my story is just a little step compared to the forum members that are chaste 24/7. But it was an emotionally pleasant experience.
