FLR in practice

OldLockedCuck

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My wife and I have been involved in cuckolding for twenty years and have introduced elements of FLR into our marriage. About a year ago we found a booklet on the internet entitled 'Owning and Training a Male Slave' by Ingrid Bellemare'. We both agreed that the lifestyle described, whereby a male became a complete consensual non-consensual slave to her, hit a real chord with us and was something we both really wanted to aspire to. Essentially it involves much of what we read in this forum but at a very strict level, including household chores, sex duties and very specific protocols and postures for the slave to adopt. It is demanding and a heavy commitment and we have tried to follow her suggestions fairly closely and are having reasonable success. Our problem is maintaining the lifestyle consistently for a long period (which we want to do but life/family matters often get in there way). Bellemare concedes that it is difficult for married couples to adapt to CNC slavery but argues that it can be achieved. We find it very stimulating and we are wondering if there is anyone here where the husband is a slave is able to keep such a lifestyle going long-term.
 
When Madam and I got together from the very beginning it was with the understanding it was a bdsm lifestyle/FLR. She is the Domme and I am her sub/slave. And that was over 20 years ago now. Madam has always been in charge and has always been completely open about how we live our life, and what we are.
She commands I obey it’s the way we have always been, in both public and private she will call me slave,subbie, cuck ect and I call her Madam, goddess, my Queen ect. I will attend to most of the chores around the house with a few exceptions. And I just do what I am told.
 
Yeah, totally respect anyone who has the dedication to go full on like that. Our FLR is a lot more flexible than that. I'm not 24/7 dressed as a sissy (pity ) but I do have duties and tasks. I always defer to Mistress but we often exchange thoughts and ideas about all aspects of our marriage.
Mind you, it's only recently we started kicking things up a notch on the FLR front.

But I have read about full 24/7 male slaves used by women. Must be really rare though, because it would require so much dedication.
 
We have been 24/7 for 20+ years. Early on it was not as strict or intense because we had kids and a very busy lifestyle. Once the kids went off to college, my wife increased her expectations for me and her domination over me. Almost all chores are done by me and I have rules and weekly routines I must follow. It is not intensely strict with postures as you described. That is not practical for us, nor is it the type of FLR that we desire. However, I would say it is demanding on me and requires sacrifice in that I often choose to not do things with friends so that I can meet or exceed my wife's expectations and please her. I have adapted to the lifestyle over time and enjoy it very much.
 
I've usually done sessions with ex partners, rather than full time. Having said that, often the session dynamic would slip into normal relationship time, especially when she was aroused... or angry.
 
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