Had anyone been found out to be wearing a cage by a friend or work mate? My KH locked me up the other day and we went out for breakfast with the key hanging loose on a chain around her neck. Whilst eating a girl we work with came in and started chatting. I was initially so embarrassed knowing that she would see the key. She didn’t say anything but I could see her looking at it and she always notices my wife’s jewellery. When she left my wife said if she asks she’ll just tell her it’s my key to her heart! I’m now very horny about the fact someone else might know about me being caged!!
That’s a very powerful transfer of power there, probably as exciting as is was was humbling!? Enjoy the subjugation 
Yes there’s also those key rings you can buy with a cocktail in a cage possibly another good conversation starter
I think you don't have to worry about it. I mean while both of you are happy there is no reason to fear others opinion or thoughts.
m'Lady always wears a key on her necklace. For a long time it was the actual key to the padlock. Since the key to the Mature Metal security screw isn't attractive I bought her an antique decorative key. I do wish the key to the decorative locks on my collar and cage were on there too. It is stainless steel and very pretty.
Several of our friends as well as some of my family know (brother and sons) and m'Lady isn't hesitant to tell what the key is for, or have me show them.
Several of our friends as well as some of my family know (brother and sons) and m'Lady isn't hesitant to tell what the key is for, or have me show them.
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My wife hasn't started wearing a key yet but hoping to change that soon. Planning on ordering a necklace and anklet for her. Atm she doesn't want to tell anyone and just leave it between us but I'm hoping that if she wears a key someone that does know what it means will bring it up in a way that makes it, in her head anyway, more comfortable of an idea to let more people know.
No friends or coworkers have found out ,neither by accident,nor intentionally,but.....while on vacations abroad,one of my Wife/KH's hobbies has become sending me , caged of course,to the spa for a massage. She makes the appointment and choses the gender of the therapist.
After returning,I have to report on my experiences ........lol
After returning,I have to report on my experiences ........lol
Never had a bad experience.
The common denominator is the obvious surprise and astonishment ,followed by infinite questions about the device,chastity lifestyle,etc.
Considering me harmless,several of the masseuses extended their curiosity with actual physical inspection and teasing,which ,went from the almost shy to the naughty who wanted to witness how an erection atempt was doomed to failure.
Lol
The common denominator is the obvious surprise and astonishment ,followed by infinite questions about the device,chastity lifestyle,etc.
Considering me harmless,several of the masseuses extended their curiosity with actual physical inspection and teasing,which ,went from the almost shy to the naughty who wanted to witness how an erection atempt was doomed to failure.
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The last three years, this year included. When we have gone on vacation She had me wear my steel collar the whole time, accept when She wants the leather one when alone. She does wear the key to my first cage because the one for the full belt isn't a standard key. This year along with us is a close friend of our's you could say. Being in Maine on Coastal Route 1 there are people from all over the country and Canada. There have been some interesting looks and a few parting comments. One was from an older woman who asked if we were all together with quite a smile. Susan never thought anyone would notice and liked the fact that no one was ever negative.
We met another couple out once that was a real treat to sit and have dinner with them. The women were facing each other and my back was to his back. The smile that came on her face was a mile wide. We both turned and looked at each other. I wonder if all couples together like that are so charming. It was a great experience. I hope that happens again. Other than that most people just keep to themselves.
We met another couple out once that was a real treat to sit and have dinner with them. The women were facing each other and my back was to his back. The smile that came on her face was a mile wide. We both turned and looked at each other. I wonder if all couples together like that are so charming. It was a great experience. I hope that happens again. Other than that most people just keep to themselves.
Sometimes it is not so much the Wife/Mistress wearing the key openly so people can see but the changes as Her slave/submissive that We go threw. I mean when She first collared me twenty years ago and We moved in together She had rules and demands for me as Her slave.
Chastity was only the start, Piercings first both ears/nipples/PA, not all at once but it happens Her wishes, She did not want to see body hair on me so by waxing or shaving I was smooth. So it is kind of hard to hide from coworkers/family, I think We had been in our house a month and She threw a dinner party for both our Families nice except while She entertained them I cooked, cleaned, served drinks, set the table and stood next to Her. A few days later my Mom called Her asking to do lunch with us and asked Her straight away about our relationship and Mistress spelled it out and all my Mom told Her She had never seen me so happy. Workmates like you say no more after-work drinks unless permission is given and I was wearing a one inch round chainmail with a padlock around my neck they would joke my dog collar. So lost a lot of friends who thought I was a freak but gained a lot of lifestyle friends this is just in my humble opinion thank you and good luck.
christine
