Getting back to basics and the original Chastity Mansion charter

[Queentammysslave]

I'm gonna get verified after reading this. I'm truly here to learn

 

[RangerCuck]

As for verification, i think it would only be worth females(or keyholders if gay) verifying. And presenting an ID is absolute nonsense for those who suggested that. Who the heck would risk that? You are not sending an ID to someone you know. I think a quick live video chat would suffice. As the amount of females on here are likely very limited, this probably would be a realistic goal.

You don't have to send ID to verify. lol It's merely a matter of taking a photo with enough evidence to show that you actually are female, and holding a piece of paper with your user name, the site name, and the current date. You don't have to provide any "identification" at all. The intent is to verify that you're actually female and reasonably represent the photos you're posting claiming as your own.

 

[sissydavenport]

I know that this thread is old, but I just wanted to tell @L-u-c-y that Your decision to go back to Femdom basics on here and renew the focus is the reason why both Mistress Davenport and I signed up for the site. It is incredibly important to have a space that is Femdom-only in scope and focus, and W/we both appreciate it very much. Additionally, the Female Verification function is how W/we actually ended up making another platonic couple friend in real life. So again, thank You!

 

[filltee]

I'm gonna get verified after reading this. I'm truly here to learn

Males don't need to get verification

 

[Luvdragoness]

In light of some recent events I think the site has gone off track and we need to get back to the basics.

I would like to see an end to the following things:

1. Males pretending to be women - verification encouraged but optional.
2. Fantasies masquerading as reality - we have a fiction section and we would love to hear your stories, please use it.
3. Any talk of women being submissive - if this is your fetish and want to discuss it there are many other sites for it.
4. Any talk of women being used like they are pieces of meat or tools for males to get off.
5. Male fetishes should be seen as secondary, not the main reason for taking part.

This is not censorship, it's just keeping the site on topic. These things should not affect the vast majority of posts.

This is the original Chastity Mansion charter from 2008 when the site was founded....

https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/welcome-to-chastity-mansion.28485/

In my opinion the site has lost it's way over the years, it was created as a MALE chastity site, I think politically correct moderators have had their own agendas and steered it to include female chastity and female submission.

I think it's time to get the site back to it's core values.

This is my interpretation of the charter.....

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Welcome to Chastity Mansion!
We’re pleased you found your way here, these are the topics you can expect to find discussed in our forums:

Male Chastity ~ Orgasm Denial ~ Sissies ~ D/s and Female Lead Relationships ~ Cuckolding

This is what I think the original meanings were meant to be...

Male chastity - Not female chastity. not men locking women, not women locking other women.

Orgasm denial

Sissies - Crossdressing as part of a chastity relationship / female led relationship. I don't think it was ever meant to be a sissy site for single sissies to meet and get off with each other.

D/s and female led relationships - Not male led relationships, not men dominating or degrading women, not females dominating other females.

Cuckolding - Cuckolding situations where the woman is dominant and in control, not the kind of cuckolding where the husband wants to "watch my wife submissively jackhammered like a slut by a giant cock". That sounds more like swinging to me. This is not a place to discuss cuckold porn.

In our search for good Male Chastity sites on the net we found many professional Dominatrix sites (for a fee!) and plenty of sites for those heavily involved in the BDSM scene. What we did not find was an entry-level safe haven which provided a fast, clean, reliable site for discussing our journey.

We aim to cater for all levels of experience, but primarily want to provide a safe haven for those on the more inexperienced side of these lifestyles. This does not mean you are excluded if you are living the D/s life, please come in and share your secrets to success.

Not every Domme is born that way, she may need time to discover her inner Goddess. Not every submissive is the perfect slave/pet/sissy – they need somewhere to share their fears and learn to serve their Mistress/Princess/Goddess/Wife…

It's quite clear this site is meant to be about about submissive males serving their Mistress/Princess/Goddess/Wife, not women serving or submitting to men.

I would add this:
You don't have to be a submissive male to take part in the site, but you must be respectful of others. This doesn't mean all men have to submit to all women or it's a site about female superiority, it simply means that this is not the place for crude or derogatory talk about women.

This is a community, for those who wish to discuss their chosen paths, in a relaxed, care-free environment.

We will NOT tolerate spamming, trolls, hatred or discrimination in any sense.

I think members and former moderators have taken this to mean that they can post anything they like, even if it's at odds with the sites charter.

Here’s hoping you find this site fast, efficient and friendly. We will always be looking to improve, so please suggest anything you would like to see on the site, or tell us if you find you are experiencing problems.

That's why I liked this site to start with! I look forward to the chance to speak with more experienced keyholders. I still need to be verified, to comment but have enjoyed a lot of the post by some of the Ladies here!

 

[Guest 3291]

In light of some recent events I think the site has gone off track and we need to get back to the basics.

I would like to see an end to the following things:

1. Males pretending to be women - verification encouraged but optional.
2. Fantasies masquerading as reality - we have a fiction section and we would love to hear your stories, please use it.
3. Any talk of women being submissive - if this is your fetish and want to discuss it there are many other sites for it.
4. Any talk of women being used like they are pieces of meat or tools for males to get off.
5. Male fetishes should be seen as secondary, not the main reason for taking part.

This is not censorship, it's just keeping the site on topic. These things should not affect the vast majority of posts.

This is the original Chastity Mansion charter from 2008 when the site was founded....

https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/welcome-to-chastity-mansion.28485/

In my opinion the site has lost it's way over the years, it was created as a MALE chastity site, I think politically correct moderators have had their own agendas and steered it to include female chastity and female submission.

I think it's time to get the site back to it's core values.

This is my interpretation of the charter.....

------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Welcome to Chastity Mansion!
We’re pleased you found your way here, these are the topics you can expect to find discussed in our forums:

Male Chastity ~ Orgasm Denial ~ Sissies ~ D/s and Female Lead Relationships ~ Cuckolding

This is what I think the original meanings were meant to be...

Male chastity - Not female chastity. not men locking women, not women locking other women.

Orgasm denial

Sissies - Crossdressing as part of a chastity relationship / female led relationship. I don't think it was ever meant to be a sissy site for single sissies to meet and get off with each other.

D/s and female led relationships - Not male led relationships, not men dominating or degrading women, not females dominating other females.

Cuckolding - Cuckolding situations where the woman is dominant and in control, not the kind of cuckolding where the husband wants to "watch my wife submissively jackhammered like a slut by a giant cock". That sounds more like swinging to me. This is not a place to discuss cuckold porn.

In our search for good Male Chastity sites on the net we found many professional Dominatrix sites (for a fee!) and plenty of sites for those heavily involved in the BDSM scene. What we did not find was an entry-level safe haven which provided a fast, clean, reliable site for discussing our journey.

We aim to cater for all levels of experience, but primarily want to provide a safe haven for those on the more inexperienced side of these lifestyles. This does not mean you are excluded if you are living the D/s life, please come in and share your secrets to success.

Not every Domme is born that way, she may need time to discover her inner Goddess. Not every submissive is the perfect slave/pet/sissy – they need somewhere to share their fears and learn to serve their Mistress/Princess/Goddess/Wife…

It's quite clear this site is meant to be about about submissive males serving their Mistress/Princess/Goddess/Wife, not women serving or submitting to men.

I would add this:
You don't have to be a submissive male to take part in the site, but you must be respectful of others. This doesn't mean all men have to submit to all women or it's a site about female superiority, it simply means that this is not the place for crude or derogatory talk about women.

This is a community, for those who wish to discuss their chosen paths, in a relaxed, care-free environment.

We will NOT tolerate spamming, trolls, hatred or discrimination in any sense.

I think members and former moderators have taken this to mean that they can post anything they like, even if it's at odds with the sites charter.

Here’s hoping you find this site fast, efficient and friendly. We will always be looking to improve, so please suggest anything you would like to see on the site, or tell us if you find you are experiencing problems.

L-u-c-y

we, the members of CM, are so fortunate to have you to guide us “back to the basics”…I really can’t speak for everyone, but I feel so lucky to have you as Co-Owner and Staff helping me, teaching me. You have been by my side whenever I needed you.
Thank you ma’am,
Jennifer26

 

[Abstraction]

It's a no-brainer that this site is about male chastity and female domination. Whoever doesn't agree can exit now.

 

[slave_m]

It's a no-brainer that this site is about male chastity and female domination. Whoever doesn't agree can exit now.

Very well said, I totally agree !!

 

[Hig4s]

It's a no-brainer that this site is about male chastity and female domination. Whoever doesn't agree can exit now.

I just re-read the original charter, and it seems to me it includes female domination, but does not require it. If I have misread and it is a requirement please let me know.

 

[bondinchas]

It would be very difficult to insist on female domination if the person in chastity has a male dominant or is self-locking!

 

[this muppet]

I would prefer it if there weren’t captioned images that depict women with their erogenous zones thrust out on view in a way that shows they’ve been copied from mainstream (i.e. objectivising and male dominated) pornography. Just as certain language communicates male domination and and misogyny, so do certain types of image - even when modified by the addition of a chastity themed caption.

 

[JaySaysYes]

I'd prefer if old threads were auto locked after a period of dormancy, and so weren't subject to a form of forum post necromancy.

 

[this muppet]

I'd prefer if old threads were auto locked after a period of dormancy, and so weren't subject to a form of forum post necromancy.

Yes indeed, forum post necromancy (FPN) is very much the scourge of our times, it’s the phrase on everyone’s lips right now. Not to mention viral meme grimoire - don’t get me started on that…!

 

[IB-Chaste]

I would prefer it if there weren’t captioned images that depict women with their erogenous zones thrust out on view in a way that shows they’ve been copied from mainstream (i.e. objectivising and male dominated) pornography. Just as certain language communicates male domination and and misogyny, so do certain types of image - even when modified by the addition of a chastity themed caption.

You can now hold the ‘like’ button and show your distaste for these images. I feel that’s a modest way of protesting.

 

[Jay Sub]

In light of some recent events I think the site has gone off track and we need to get back to the basics.

I would like to see an end to the following things:

1. Males pretending to be women - verification encouraged but optional.
2. Fantasies masquerading as reality - we have a fiction section and we would love to hear your stories, please use it.
3. Any talk of women being submissive - if this is your fetish and want to discuss it there are many other sites for it.
4. Any talk of women being used like they are pieces of meat or tools for males to get off.
5. Male fetishes should be seen as secondary, not the main reason for taking part.

This is not censorship, it's just keeping the site on topic. These things should not affect the vast majority of posts.

This is the original Chastity Mansion charter from 2008 when the site was founded....

https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/welcome-to-chastity-mansion.28485/

In my opinion the site has lost it's way over the years, it was created as a MALE chastity site, I think politically correct moderators have had their own agendas and steered it to include female chastity and female submission.

I think it's time to get the site back to it's core values.

This is my interpretation of the charter.....

------------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Welcome to Chastity Mansion!
We’re pleased you found your way here, these are the topics you can expect to find discussed in our forums:

Male Chastity ~ Orgasm Denial ~ Sissies ~ D/s and Female Lead Relationships ~ Cuckolding

This is what I think the original meanings were meant to be...

Male chastity - Not female chastity. not men locking women, not women locking other women.

Orgasm denial

Sissies - Crossdressing as part of a chastity relationship / female led relationship. I don't think it was ever meant to be a sissy site for single sissies to meet and get off with each other.

D/s and female led relationships - Not male led relationships, not men dominating or degrading women, not females dominating other females.

Cuckolding - Cuckolding situations where the woman is dominant and in control, not the kind of cuckolding where the husband wants to "watch my wife submissively jackhammered like a slut by a giant cock". That sounds more like swinging to me. This is not a place to discuss cuckold porn.

In our search for good Male Chastity sites on the net we found many professional Dominatrix sites (for a fee!) and plenty of sites for those heavily involved in the BDSM scene. What we did not find was an entry-level safe haven which provided a fast, clean, reliable site for discussing our journey.

We aim to cater for all levels of experience, but primarily want to provide a safe haven for those on the more inexperienced side of these lifestyles. This does not mean you are excluded if you are living the D/s life, please come in and share your secrets to success.

Not every Domme is born that way, she may need time to discover her inner Goddess. Not every submissive is the perfect slave/pet/sissy – they need somewhere to share their fears and learn to serve their Mistress/Princess/Goddess/Wife…

It's quite clear this site is meant to be about about submissive males serving their Mistress/Princess/Goddess/Wife, not women serving or submitting to men.

I would add this:
You don't have to be a submissive male to take part in the site, but you must be respectful of others. This doesn't mean all men have to submit to all women or it's a site about female superiority, it simply means that this is not the place for crude or derogatory talk about women.

This is a community, for those who wish to discuss their chosen paths, in a relaxed, care-free environment.

We will NOT tolerate spamming, trolls, hatred or discrimination in any sense.

I think members and former moderators have taken this to mean that they can post anything they like, even if it's at odds with the sites charter.

Here’s hoping you find this site fast, efficient and friendly. We will always be looking to improve, so please suggest anything you would like to see on the site, or tell us if you find you are experiencing problems.

Everyone please read this again, and again, and then in a few months, when you've forgotten what this site is about... read it again.