With my wife's help I am attempting by far my longest lockup . My last orgasom was New years day . I going to attempt to have only tease and ruined orgasoms until Valentine's day. My wife doesn't think I can make it but she said she would be happy to help me try. She loves penetration and doesn't think even with numbing cream I can hold out after a while. I told her we could try a ruined orgasom before we had sex and then the numbing cream. I'm going to need everyones support and encouragement. We used to be a sex 6 times a week couple ,and me masterbating every day kind of guy . I sure it's going to be a strugle but at least it's a goal.