To my fellow keyholders, do your subs ever try to switch it up on you? Today my sub asked if he could restrain me and walk me around. Ya know, dominate ME! I shut that shit down immediately. What would you have done?
HE’S ACTUALLY TRYING TO SWITCH IT UP!
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I would tie him up, lock him down in a very, very tiny cage and set him in the corner for several hours......
He needs to be reminded of who's the dominate one. Maybe him not being able to sit for a few days would help.
Males are generally more dominant.
In fact, even females who would be into the domination thing would submit to more dominant males. Just has to be the right one.
All women are relatively more submissive to males than vice versa.
This fetish is unnatural.
I can't believe you're surprised.
Based on what you've said of his wants and your reaction to them, I would say that your relationship is probably on borrowed time.
(Unless he was just trying to get punished)
Good luck
In fact, even females who would be into the domination thing would submit to more dominant males. Just has to be the right one.
All women are relatively more submissive to males than vice versa.
This fetish is unnatural.
I can't believe you're surprised.
Based on what you've said of his wants and your reaction to them, I would say that your relationship is probably on borrowed time.
(Unless he was just trying to get punished)
Good luck
Damn just joined today lol!
I think there is something to what you are saying, but do you wear a chastity cage?
Actually Uncle Bob my husband and i have been together for 45 years! I assure you we are FAR FROM ON THE ROCKS. We have a very happy relationship . He was the initiator of our lifestyle. He has always fantasized about being dominated by a beautiful woman and who am i to disappoint. The problem lies with him wanting to take my power away from me.
@denied_one I remind you that my butt gets worshipped as I see fit and your butt will get spanked everyday till I see fit for even thinking that
That is AWESOME! Congrats! @MrsLockNkey and I just celebrated 20 years married, 28 years together 11 days ago on the 4th
I was as well! I turned Her out. Lol
I introduced Her to spanking, to domination and to chastity....She has fun with all of it, lucky us!
Ms toooo...since the age of 13 I knew I wanted a Wife who would be bossy and bitchy
and tell me what to do! Much to my delight and happiness, She enjoys it, and treats me in much the same way.
You two are cool @BKwife
OK, so now it’s time for my side of the story. For those of you that don’t know
BKwife and I start it our relationship an awful long time ago. And at that time, BK was submissive to me. After a long time, I found out that she really didn’t like it, but she did it for me. So we changed and she became dominant, and I really enjoyed that and she started to enjoy that too. So things are going well and I just decided to ask her if she wouldn’t mind me tying her up again, I had no idea how that would affect her, she said that it actually made her sad that I would even ask such a question and it really did affect her mood that day. If I would’ve known that it would be affected her that much I never would’ve done it and I’m really sorry that I did ask that question, I would take it back 100 times if I could.
Sorry BK.
BKwife and I start it our relationship an awful long time ago. And at that time, BK was submissive to me. After a long time, I found out that she really didn’t like it, but she did it for me. So we changed and she became dominant, and I really enjoyed that and she started to enjoy that too. So things are going well and I just decided to ask her if she wouldn’t mind me tying her up again, I had no idea how that would affect her, she said that it actually made her sad that I would even ask such a question and it really did affect her mood that day. If I would’ve known that it would be affected her that much I never would’ve done it and I’m really sorry that I did ask that question, I would take it back 100 times if I could.
Sorry BK.
Aww, such a good boy. I’m glad you’ve seen the error of your ways. Let’s not do that again
Wouldn't ever happen. He knows better than to even think about it.
Every once in a while I let my Wife know I miss dominating her sexually, she just laughs and reminds me it will never happen again. For our first 28 years of marriage she would try and enjoy bdsm things for me and was always willing to try new things, but she’s just not that submissive. Finding cock cages and asking if she wanted to try them on me 5 years ago really flipped our sex lives upside down. But I wouldn’t change a thing, she’s blossomed as she grew comfortable in letting her dominant side out and pushed my submission.
Now I just have my memories and fantasies of tying her down, spanking her, torturing her clit till she begged to cum, etc.
She owns me completely now, and there’s no going back
Now I just have my memories and fantasies of tying her down, spanking her, torturing her clit till she begged to cum, etc.
She owns me completely now, and there’s no going back
Pretty much the same story here may be a little different timeline, but the same basic plot. I agree with you. I wouldn’t change it for anything either, I guess I was just being a little selfish. And I had no idea it was gonna bother her that much.
It was this last weekend. I asked her while we were on our daily walk.
What a mistake that was.
Awww a daily walk! I love it. Is it in the morning or the evening?
He was making misogynistic comments in chat too. Someone needs to lock him up.