Hi everybody.
I'm so glad I found this site. There are some really good posts.
I am 47 and have been into the idea of chastity for many years. I have bought a few different devices and have worn them for a few hours, maybe even a full day once at most. I did share with my kink with a previous partner many years back, and only in a fairly limited way.
I have another partner now, my wife of nearly 10 years who has pretty much said "no" to any kink whatsoever. We don't have sex very often. I would prefer more often, but it's difficult with our kids, 2, 4 and 6yo and my wife sleeps in a separate bed to me as we do this to get the kids to sleep.
When we do have sex, I am very eager to give her cunnilingus and when we have sex it's 30 mins of cunnilingus and I cum in her very easily after that. I think she has only fellated me once or twice, and I don't really mind.
Since reading about some 24/7 FLR members on this site it's got my mind ticking over that it could be a possibility for us, although with a few problems in the way. I really love the idea of permanent chastity and limited release, perhaps once a month. With penalties for if I have behaved badly or not being willing to do something, e.g. forced bi, I would miss out on my monthly release.
I love the fantasies - forced bi, being cuckolded, cuckold cleanup, wasted orgasm, humiliation, fluffer, anal, wife wearing key holder t-shirt in public, and being outed as cuckold chastity etc. But I don't know if my wife will ever be up for that.
We do argue a bit on a few things. Am I wondering if I could solve this problem, as well as sell the chastity kink idea to my wife by giving up my will and submitting to her and try chastity. I am trying to give it a pretend try by reminding myself before I argue with her - that if we were in a chastity FLR, I could not argue with her. And that if I did the penalty would be missing out on a month's release. I love the thought of her threatening me. She could subltley wave the key in my face - "Do you want to miss out this month?"
I read of couples where the wife was vanilla, but he was able to bring her around, and it now happily locked in chastity. Some persistence on the male sub's part will be required. I am optimistic that she might agree to a chastity FLR. I am going to try 2 weeks of being as subservient and eager to do dishes and washing. This site has been such an inspiration to me that a vanilla wife can be won over. I hope that in time she will gain confidence and start to become a cruel sexy femdom, surprising me with a nasty humiliating comment here and there causing my caged cock to painfully bulge in its confinement. She does have a wicked sense of humour
I have a full meatotomy, back past the head, and I am circumcised. I am thinking a Reverse Prince Albert piercing would be great for inescapable chastity. The though of a large gauge healed piercing, a small lock passing through the head of my penis - I'm terrified and excited at the same time.
I love this site and the posts. Thanks everybody. I have been binge reading this site ever since I found it.
