I'm a chastitylifestyler who is looking for a alternative, think I've found it. My wife and I have been involved in this lifestyle for over four years. While things moved slowly at first, we both have now evolved to a much more serious level. My wonderful wife has really taken to chastityl and the many benefits it has brought her. I'm not sure she would ever go back to a vanilla lifestyle. That's if for now, just wanted to say hi.