:welcome: to the site timbo! :anim_27:
A little more information would be helpful... the only reason people are asking is not because they are nosey, but because we get this question A LOT and every wife is different.
I wasn't interest at all in chastity and becoming a Domme to my pet... but I'm a natural kinkster and was happy to give it a try, and it took off for a while (although at the moment we are having some downtime)
There are others here whose partners "put up" with their kink and they manage in a different way to those who guided their partners into being KHs.
So, if you care to elaborate, I'm sure we'd love to help. :manga_cheer: