Out for dinner and drinks with longtime couple friends tonight. Him I've known forever, her since they married. She's cool asf though should be noted. My wife was home as not her thing. I've since told her the conversation. They mentioned a sex swing and various dildos first. I honestly paused said I probably shouldn't say this. Then admitted my wife enjoys denying me orgasms and spanking me raw. They.didnt even blink an eye. Was very freeing if im being honest for first time ever I can't lie.