I didn't post it (obviously since it is from the pov of a mistress) but I found the following reddit threads very interesting. I particularly like that the author came to the realization about fairness. https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomCommunity/comments/5d1v3j/how_i_made_it_work_part_1_of/ https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomCommunity/comments/5d7wsm/how_i_made_it_work_part_2_of/ https://www.reddit.com/r/FemdomCommunity/comments/5e2q3l/how_i_made_it_work_part_3_of/ Performing an unfair act ("all the chores"), at my instruction, and without complaint was him demonstrating submission. For me to minimize the unfairness of it was the exact opposite of what I should have done. For me the whole point of the FLR aspects of my relationship is that it isn't fair. It isn't fair that I have to give her an hour long massage almost every night with little or not consideration of how tired I am. It isn't fair that she has the new car while I drive the old beater. But it wasn't fair in the 50s the way women were traditionally treated either. By living the life we have I gain so much from her pleasures and that is enough.