Is masturbation cheating?
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Not if your KH allows it- it is quite simple. It is about satisfying her!
It’s not allowed without permission. When it does happen it’s in her presence.
Unless she says it's ok then yes it is. Kinds the entire point of the chasity aspect of it.
I can only masturbate in her presence, not on my own any more
It doesn't matter if you don't cum, if you're just edging. Having an unpermitted erection and rubbing it is cheating. Those erections belong to her; having one without her supervision reawakens old ideas of possibly being a real man, not a locked husband like she wants.
In our relationship it is. The only time I get to masturbate is when my Wife (KH) allows it.
Her new thing is allowing me to masturbate to the edge and then she stops me, let's me go semi soft, then start up again. She says that I get to tease and deny myself, and she does none of the work. As I get close to having a orgasm, I have to tell her that I'm close, then stop. Most of the time, I'm tied to our bed. She will undo my left hand and make me masturbate while she watches. I have always "jerked off" with my right hand, so this makes it a little harder to do...
Her new thing is allowing me to masturbate to the edge and then she stops me, let's me go semi soft, then start up again. She says that I get to tease and deny myself, and she does none of the work. As I get close to having a orgasm, I have to tell her that I'm close, then stop. Most of the time, I'm tied to our bed. She will undo my left hand and make me masturbate while she watches. I have always "jerked off" with my right hand, so this makes it a little harder to do...
This is how my chastity cage journey started. Told my wife i masterbated when she was at work. On her end it’s a feeling of betrayal that instead of pleasing her I chose to masterbate when she wasn’t there.
It seems there are different categories of restrictions and they may overlap...
1) My penis belongs to my wife/mistress and I am never uncaged or I am not allowed to touch it outside of the cage under any circumstances or for any reason, even for cleaning or shaving, and I am never allowed to rub or masturbate or ejaculate while caged without express permission and supervision. My mistress takes care of cleaning and/or shaving. Touching her penis without her express permission would be cheating.
2) I am allowed to touch my penis while outside of the cage for cleaning or shaving only, but I am not allowed to rub or masturbate in order to get an erection without her express permission and supervision. Erections sometimes spontaneously occur when my penis is outside of the cage but not because I touch it or rub it, that would be cheating.
3) I am generally allowed to touch or masturbate my penis only while caged but I am not allowed to orgasm or ejaculate without express permission and supervision, that would be cheating.
4) I am allowed to touch or masturbate myself to get an erection or attempt to get an erection or edge myself at any time, caged or uncaged, but I must have express permission and supervision to ejaculate or else that would be cheating.
5) I am allowed to touch or masturbate myself to get an erection or ejaculate at any time, caged or uncaged.
Did I miss anything?
1) My penis belongs to my wife/mistress and I am never uncaged or I am not allowed to touch it outside of the cage under any circumstances or for any reason, even for cleaning or shaving, and I am never allowed to rub or masturbate or ejaculate while caged without express permission and supervision. My mistress takes care of cleaning and/or shaving. Touching her penis without her express permission would be cheating.
2) I am allowed to touch my penis while outside of the cage for cleaning or shaving only, but I am not allowed to rub or masturbate in order to get an erection without her express permission and supervision. Erections sometimes spontaneously occur when my penis is outside of the cage but not because I touch it or rub it, that would be cheating.
3) I am generally allowed to touch or masturbate my penis only while caged but I am not allowed to orgasm or ejaculate without express permission and supervision, that would be cheating.
4) I am allowed to touch or masturbate myself to get an erection or attempt to get an erection or edge myself at any time, caged or uncaged, but I must have express permission and supervision to ejaculate or else that would be cheating.
5) I am allowed to touch or masturbate myself to get an erection or ejaculate at any time, caged or uncaged.
Did I miss anything?
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Technically, if it's solo then not only is it cheating but it's also gay, since you are playing with a cock.
I have not had unsupervised masturbation since about 4 weeks into my relationship with my now-wife/KH and when we first met she allowed masturbation to her pictures only. That was six years ago.
Prior to our relationship, I used to jerk off 6-8 times a day. When she does order me to masturbate in front of her, I do it so infrequently, my arm gets pretty sore before I can cum.
Prior to our relationship, I used to jerk off 6-8 times a day. When she does order me to masturbate in front of her, I do it so infrequently, my arm gets pretty sore before I can cum.
What matters is what she considers cheating.
If she has locked you up and agrees to control the key, and you masturbate, you are breaking her trust. Is it worth it?
Only if you also consider it cheating. If she considers it cheating and you do not, there is an issue.
I can only speak for myself. I am not allowed to masturbate unless she allows it. If I did that it would for sure be cheating. In regard to my cumming anymore... It almost never happens. Once I cum I lose interest and she knows that. So, she does not like it when I cum. I have to focus on her and her only. However, I really dont have the need to cum anymore.