Is there health issues with orgasm denial?

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I was wondering if anyone else in long term chastity has prostate issues. As a kid, I was told by older guys, use it or loose it when talking abut having sex. I recently went to the urologist for my yearly checkup and when he looked at my bloodwork, he was concerned about my prostate. When she did the rectal exam and pushed my prostate, i ejaculated all over the floor. She asked when I had sex last or ejaculated, I told her I hadn't had sex for over 2 years and no ejaculation for several months. I have several tests to have done and hope they all come out well.
The 2 questions I have is do you wear your cage to the Dr.s office and unlock it in front of them or take it off before the exam and does anyone else think that no ejaculation for an extended time if harmful?
My key holder has done prostate stimulation while i am caged and it does make me leak all over but hasn't done it for a while.
Thank you for your thoughts.
 
My PSA level has risen the last couple of years and just went above threshold for my age. I didn't know if there is a correlation with chastity or of it's just due to family history and aging. Or all of the above. I get retested soon.
 
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My PSA level has risen the last couple of years and just went above threshold for my age. I didn't know if there is a correlation with chastity or of it's just due to family history and aging. Or all of the above. I get retested soon.
Do not have a release before. It raises the PSA level and can give a false positive. I had a scare because I had a release the morning of a PSA. Then read up on the NHS which I seem to remember said 24hrs. For us older chaste ones that might be longer, though that part is an educated guess.
 
There is a correlation between prostate cancer and low ejaculation...
The baseline is low ejaculation. Having very frequent ejaculations, in one unverified, non controlled study, said frequent ejaculations can lower the risk from baseline. But low ejacs do not increase the likelihood of prostate cancer.
 
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My PSA level has risen the last couple of years and just went above threshold for my age. I didn't know if there is a correlation with chastity or of it's just due to family history and aging. Or all of the above. I get retested soon.
The second test came down a little and my numbers have been low and the same for years. Now that I don't get to ejaculate my numbers went up. Before I was caged, I ejaculated at least once a day then once a month and now nothing so I didn't know.
 
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That's not a link to a study.

There are no well conducted longitudinal studies on sexual behaviour and prostate cancer. They just don't exist.

You have more risk of prostate cancer by eating fast food, ultraprocessed food, being overweight, not exercising, and many other factors.
I read the information in the link and it was informative. My take away was more ejaculation lowered the Prostate cancer risk.
 
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The second test came down a little and my numbers have been low and the same for years. Now that I don't get to ejaculate my numbers went up. Before I was caged, I ejaculated at least once a day then once a month and now nothing so I didn't know.
My keyholder wanted to go with me so she could expose that I am in chastity by unlocking me when it was time. I said maybe next time.
 
Do not have a release before. It raises the PSA level and can give a false positive. I had a scare because I had a release the morning of a PSA. Then read up on the NHS which I seem to remember said 24hrs. For us older chaste ones that might be longer, though that part is an educated guess.
Yes she told me to abstain for at least 24 hours and no exercise. It is still a little high so I think she said CT scan. I also asked if she would do another test if I ejaculated every day for 2 weeks and rested for 48 hours. I didn't get a reply yet.
 
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While I know it is not statistically valid, I do know two gentlemen that came down with prostate cancer in their 50s - both had very little sex/ejaculations. The younger one, who had the least, died in his mid 50s.
 
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its all about your genetics.
I am in my low sixtys and have a score of 0.73 (out of 4 for those who dont know the normal scale)
So low that the doctor said "You are so low you don't even get the finger thsi year"
 
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I was wondering if anyone else in long term chastity has prostate issues. As a kid, I was told by older guys, use it or loose it when talking abut having sex. I recently went to the urologist for my yearly checkup and when he looked at my bloodwork, he was concerned about my prostate. When she did the rectal exam and pushed my prostate, i ejaculated all over the floor. She asked when I had sex last or ejaculated, I told her I hadn't had sex for over 2 years and no ejaculation for several months. I have several tests to have done and hope they all come out well.
The 2 questions I have is do you wear your cage to the Dr.s office and unlock it in front of them or take it off before the exam and does anyone else think that no ejaculation for an extended time if harmful?
My key holder has done prostate stimulation while i am caged and it does make me leak all over but hasn't done it for a while.
Thank you for your thoughts.

I think you need to look at your family's health history before trying to connect the dots with chastity and orgasm denial activities. My understanding is people who have a family history of cancer, prostate issues or other health problems are more likely inherit them than those who don't.
 
My psa has been between 1.4-1.9 over the last 8 years, we started chastity about 6 years ago with ever increasing lockups and fewer and fewer orgasms. I’m getting this years labs drawn tmrw morning, results hopefully within a few days to a week. I’m very curious to see if psa has risen especially after the last year having the fewest orgasms of my life since puberty hit. Depending on the results it could change how we do chastity, hopefully it hasn’t really changed, and as long as my doc is happy, we can continue as usual. Neither my GP or my TRT doc know anything about my cage use or chastity
 
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I’ve had no issues so far, and get checked twice a year. My wife/KH doesn’t want to take any chances. While she’s moving me towards almost exclusively having prostate releases (she’s had some success draining me with very little pleasurable sensations), and with ruined orgasms one in a blue moon, she still doesn’t want to be/or contribute to the cause of potential prostate issues. The goal is eventually denying me allunencumbered orgasms permanently, but not bring on illness. My wife still believes the goal is kinky fun and frustration (and that’s not far from the truth at this moment) but not to hurt me. I could end our little chastity arrangement in an instant, but then she won’t be a key holder or act as a Mistress. Then it’s back to boredom.
 
I was wondering if anyone else in long term chastity has prostate issues. As a kid, I was told by older guys, use it or loose it when talking abut having sex. I recently went to the urologist for my yearly checkup and when he looked at my bloodwork, he was concerned about my prostate. When she did the rectal exam and pushed my prostate, i ejaculated all over the floor. She asked when I had sex last or ejaculated, I told her I hadn't had sex for over 2 years and no ejaculation for several months. I have several tests to have done and hope they all come out well.
The 2 questions I have is do you wear your cage to the Dr.s office and unlock it in front of them or take it off before the exam and does anyone else think that no ejaculation for an extended time if harmful?
My key holder has done prostate stimulation while i am caged and it does make me leak all over but hasn't done it for a while.
Thank you for your thoughts.
Nearly all of the personal accounts, though anecdotal, do not indicate anything to worry about.

Physically, there are can be (potentially serious) issues if blood circulation is restricted in ill-fitting devices. Also, there can be serious infection concerns with open and untreated wounds, and there is an increased risk of infection with any inserted device like a catheter or (to a lesser extent) piercing.

We know, without doubt, there are physical mechanics to purge old sperm and ejaculatory fluids. These may involved a slightly increased prostate size which should only manifest in terms of slightly more frequent urination. But there is nothing to indicated that "build ups" cause a problem, or in fact, even exist.

What dramatically impacts fertility and sexual performance are abnormal hormone levels. Chastity not only doesn't have negative impacts to these hormones, but may actually show (slight) benefit.

Now, where does this thinking tend to come from? Well, there are a type of scientific study called epidemiological studies that use observational data to form correlative conclusions. Additionally, studies that rely on self-reporting also can be flawed. Studies on male ejaculation tend to involve both... If I may sumerize the main issue with them:

It is true that some of these studies show men who ejaculate infrequently are generally in poorer health. HOWEVER, they do not distinguish men who CAN OTHERWISE ejaculate often, but voluntarily don't from those men who CAN'T PHYSICALLY cum often.

Most men ejaculate as much as they can. So these studies are making a big and non applicable assumption! Ask yourself, if every man is having as many Os as they can, who is in poorer health? The ones who cum frequently or the ones who can't? That's what those studies suggest.

If you want to stay healthy in this regard, I would be more concerned about your emotional state, diet, and exercise routines than I would about how often you voluntarily choose to deny yourself an O.
 
While I know it is not statistically valid, I do know two gentlemen that came down with prostate cancer in their 50s - both had very little sex/ejaculations. The younger one, who had the least, died in his mid 50s.
I bet they smoked, drank booze, ate fast food, ate ultra-processed food, were obese, led a stressful life, or never exercised, worked in a toxic environment, etc.

I know three monks that didn't ejaculate ever and lived to be 100 years old.

But anyway...I highly doubt your story is true, so there is that.
 
My Dr who is big on men's health advised that prostate cancer in men is inevitable if you live long enough, it might not manifest itself before you pass, but it will happen. It just happens to be one that is quite treatable with various options. I don't know what the mortality rate is from those who die of prostate or cancers connected to it.

This is of course 1 docs word so take it with a grain of salt, but I don't let the frequency of orgasms (or lack thereof) make me worry about cancer.
 
Here's a study on pub med that shows a link between frequency of ejaculation and cancer: