I'm a heterosexual male in a long-term married relationship. Years ago I began to understand that my natural sexual orientation was as a submissive in a femdom relationship. However, for many years my wife resisted my efforts to persuade her to take more control in our sexual relationship. As is probably the case with many wives, she expressed some superficial interest but couldn't bring herself to enter into what she considered a deviant relationship.
In the course of trying to gain her cooperation I had suggested that male chastity might be an approach to dominance that would suit her since it didn't necessarily involve the physical violence (spankings, whipping, etc) aspects of femdom which she said she had no interest in. And it would resolve her complaints about my inability to refrain from masturbating when she wasn't around. We even went so far as to purchase a couple of male chastity devices including Curve and even one of Ms Lori's custom items. Although these all worked to some degree, I found I was able to defeat them all by masturbating while still being locked up. Furthermore, all of these are somewhat cumbersome and hygiene is made more difficult by the size and complexity of the device.
I had begun to think that I was never going to be able to get my wife persuaded to participate in my fantasies until last month when she read through the 50 Shades of Gray trilogy. Those books seemed to make a significant impression on her with respect people being true to their own sexuality. So I mustered the courage to ask her if she might be willing to revisit the male chastity as part of our relationship. Her response was "yes" but under the condition that the device we used not lead to "smelly balls."
I was already aware of the existence of KTB-type (Kali's Teeth Bracelet) devices and I thought that the limited size of a KTB might make for something that would meet my wife's "no smelly balls" criteria. So I began to explore online what was available. There's a common style available from several online sex shops and I bought one of these only to realize after receiving it that it was just a toy for short-term use, regardless of what was advertised. It was heavy and, more importantly, the wide spacing between the large "points" made removal easy for me even with the smallest size available.
I became depressed thinking that I wouldn't be able to find a KTB that really worked and I frantically surfed the web until I stumbled across a KTB made by Male Chastity Now. After exchanging emails with Mark at Male Chastity I get my courage up and emailed him an order. A few days later the KTB came in the mail and my whole life began to change.
In the course of trying to gain her cooperation I had suggested that male chastity might be an approach to dominance that would suit her since it didn't necessarily involve the physical violence (spankings, whipping, etc) aspects of femdom which she said she had no interest in. And it would resolve her complaints about my inability to refrain from masturbating when she wasn't around. We even went so far as to purchase a couple of male chastity devices including Curve and even one of Ms Lori's custom items. Although these all worked to some degree, I found I was able to defeat them all by masturbating while still being locked up. Furthermore, all of these are somewhat cumbersome and hygiene is made more difficult by the size and complexity of the device.
I had begun to think that I was never going to be able to get my wife persuaded to participate in my fantasies until last month when she read through the 50 Shades of Gray trilogy. Those books seemed to make a significant impression on her with respect people being true to their own sexuality. So I mustered the courage to ask her if she might be willing to revisit the male chastity as part of our relationship. Her response was "yes" but under the condition that the device we used not lead to "smelly balls."
I was already aware of the existence of KTB-type (Kali's Teeth Bracelet) devices and I thought that the limited size of a KTB might make for something that would meet my wife's "no smelly balls" criteria. So I began to explore online what was available. There's a common style available from several online sex shops and I bought one of these only to realize after receiving it that it was just a toy for short-term use, regardless of what was advertised. It was heavy and, more importantly, the wide spacing between the large "points" made removal easy for me even with the smallest size available.
I became depressed thinking that I wouldn't be able to find a KTB that really worked and I frantically surfed the web until I stumbled across a KTB made by Male Chastity Now. After exchanging emails with Mark at Male Chastity I get my courage up and emailed him an order. A few days later the KTB came in the mail and my whole life began to change.
