Maintain stamina

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I have read this issue in different posts. I guess, it deserves an own thread

Are there keyholders that actively want to maintain his stamina?
I admit, I do.

We are at monthly releases. In between I edge him often and intense and we both concentrate on how he responds and give him the ability to control his body.
I want him and me to orgasm in sync occasionally.
If he thinks, he get's too advanced in arousal, he interrupts PIV and goes down on me for a moment.
Finally coming together is great bonding.

What do you think about it?
 
I have read this issue in different posts. I guess, it deserves an own thread

Are there keyholders that actively want to maintain his stamina?
I admit, I do.

We are at monthly releases. In between I edge him often and intense and we both concentrate on how he responds and give him the ability to control his body.
I want him and me to orgasm in sync occasionally.
If he thinks, he get's too advanced in arousal, he interrupts PIV and goes down on me for a moment.
Finally coming together is great bonding.

What do you think about it?

@MrsLockNkey and i have cum in sync a handful of times, it is magnificent and decadent and super intimate and emotional
 
I guess frequent edging is one option or if you wanted to be meaner about it let him have PIV but set a time he has to last and if he doesn't there are punishments waiting. Im sure that would help train him.
I ride him to edge him as well. But since we agreed on scheduled releases he kwows, that he is not allowed to come. So I stop at the edge.
 
Stamina was the biggest casualty of Chastity for me...
Used to be able to last for hours, and now sometimes it could be over in mere seconds.
(Gotta work on those Kegels, concentrate on breathing, and think about baseball)

It's really not necessary to let it out...
My tongue is more than capable of doing the job. :)


A simultaneous climax doesn't happen very often, but unforgettable when it does.
 
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Stamina was the biggest casualty of Chastity for me...
Used to be able to last for hours, and now sometimes it could be over in mere seconds.
(Gotta work on those Kegels, concentrate on breathing, and think about baseball)

It's really not necessary to let it out...
My tongue is more than capable of doing the job. :)


A simultaneous climax doesn't happen very often, but unforgettable when it does.

Smoke some marijuana 20 minutes before play time!
 
For Madam & myself, cannabis not only slows things down, but heightens our our overall sensitivity. We find it helps melt away the normal stresses life throws at us and get's us focused on the pleasure at hand, or at tongue (lol), It does depends on the strain, a sativa leaning hybrid enhances our overall skin sensitivity, just remember it tends to dry things out, so hydration is important, a tasty beverage & lube are your best friends. your mileage may vary
 
For Madam & myself, cannabis not only slows things down, but heightens our our overall sensitivity. We find it helps melt away the normal stresses life throws at us and get's us focused on the pleasure at hand, or at tongue (lol), It does depends on the strain, a sativa leaning hybrid enhances our overall skin sensitivity, just remember it tends to dry things out, so hydration is important, a tasty beverage & lube are your best friends. your mileage may vary

Hell yes!
 
I’m a little jealous hearing about all the PIV and stamina training!
That is all in the past for me.

No PIV or edge for me, only anal pegging.

If given the opportunity, I would not last two seconds and I’m not big enough to satisfy her. She hates the mess too.

The female is far superior to the male in every way, especially when it comes to orgasm!!
 
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I’m a little jealous hearing about all the PIV and stamina training!
That is all in the past for me.

No PIV or edge for me, only anal pegging.

If given the opportunity, I would not last two seconds and I’m not big enough to satisfy her. She hates the mess too.

The female is far superior to the male in every way, especially when it comes to orgasm!!


not sure how long in the past you speak, I empathize, locked for 40 days now and promised at least 2 more week from my KH, I would welcome some pegging this weekend. and regarding the mess, should Madam cause any leakage, she will be sure to feed it back to me, cleaning it all up. Horney AF
 
I have read this issue in different posts. I guess, it deserves an own thread

Are there keyholders that actively want to maintain his stamina?
I admit, I do.

We are at monthly releases. In between I edge him often and intense and we both concentrate on how he responds and give him the ability to control his body.
I want him and me to orgasm in sync occasionally.
If he thinks, he get's too advanced in arousal, he interrupts PIV and goes down on me for a moment.
Finally coming together is great bonding.

What do you think about it?
We found that my stamina when my Wife unlocked me after only two weeks of denial was non-existent.
I began dong Kegel exercised but still I would often ejaculate after only 2 o3 3 stroke inside her.

Each time this would happen I would apologize to my Wife.

To partially compensate I kept a collection of sex toys on hand to satisfy her when I was too quick-on-the-trigger.
Eventually she found a boyfriend to supplement my short-cummings.
 
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Without reading any of the comments.......

Two important things to consider:
1) Given enough proper stimulation the male orgasm is all but involuntary; it's a symptom of the nervous system reaching a specified level of sexual arousal. 2) A man subjected to sufficient levels of denial of said stimulation will certainly reach the level of arousal required to orgasm sooner than someone who, say, just blew his load two minutes ago.

The actual evolutionary mechanism of this is obvious and I'm willing to bet, via SEVERAL "forced milking" experiences, that it's a lot harder to circumvent than you think. (Unless you're old and you're no longer raging with male sex hormones).

Keeping a man in chastity, denying not only his orgasm but stimulation of his sexual organs, is all but guaranteed to reduce his sexual stamina (Unless you're old and you're no longer raging with male sex hormones).

This is my modestly educated opinion and I expect much disagreement.
 
Without reading any of the comments.......

Two important things to consider:
1) Given enough proper stimulation the male orgasm is all but involuntary; it's a symptom of the nervous system reaching a specified level of sexual arousal. 2) A man subjected to sufficient levels of denial of said stimulation will certainly reach the level of arousal required to orgasm sooner than someone who, say, just blew his load two minutes ago.

The actual evolutionary mechanism of this is obvious and I'm willing to bet, via SEVERAL "forced milking" experiences, that it's a lot harder to circumvent than you think. (Unless you're old and you're no longer raging with male sex hormones).

Keeping a man in chastity, denying not only his orgasm but stimulation of his sexual organs, is all but guaranteed to reduce his sexual stamina (Unless you're old and you're no longer raging with male sex hormones).

This is my modestly educated opinion and I expect much disagreement.
Sorry to frustrate your expectations, but I agree. Fortunately I am old and no longer raging with male sex hormones.
 
If you're not trying to strictly limit his orgasms, you could consider letting him cum and only then start PIV. You could make him masturbate for you and then, after he cleans himself up, turn his attention to you. I bet a few minutes of whatever foreplay you direct will get him ready to go pretty quickly (especially if he's been denied for a while). I've never been given a ruined orgasm. Maybe others will be able to say if the second orgasm is harder to achieve.
 
I have read this issue in different posts. I guess, it deserves an own thread

Are there keyholders that actively want to maintain his stamina?
I admit, I do.

We are at monthly releases. In between I edge him often and intense and we both concentrate on how he responds and give him the ability to control his body.
I want him and me to orgasm in sync occasionally.
If he thinks, he get's too advanced in arousal, he interrupts PIV and goes down on me for a moment.
Finally coming together is great bonding.

What do you think about it?
This is exactly what I do. I love going down once we started it’s amazing
 
My Wife is very happy she’s dropped my stamina, I used to go way too long in her opinion. If I know I’m not allowed to cum, I can give her enough piv for her to get her orgasm or two, we just have to take little pauses or adjust position etc so I can hold off from having an accident. On the very rare occasions she allows me to cum from piv, it happens within minutes which is a huge ego check and quite a mind fuck, although I’m basically used to my predicament at this point. Wife is very happy and knows she could give me a ruin if she wanted some extra stamina from me.
 
My Wife is very happy she’s dropped my stamina, I used to go way too long in her opinion. If I know I’m not allowed to cum, I can give her enough piv for her to get her orgasm or two, we just have to take little pauses or adjust position etc so I can hold off from having an accident. On the very rare occasions she allows me to cum from piv, it happens within minutes which is a huge ego check and quite a mind fuck, although I’m basically used to my predicament at this point. Wife is very happy and knows she could give me a ruin if she wanted some extra stamina from me.
Sems to be common, to show the male, how useless they have become. I am struggeling with this approach.
 
She doesn't really care about my stamina as she cums fairly quickly when we have piv, which isn't often. Her sex drive has never been through the roof, kids and premenopause certainly didn't help. There's things she enjoys doing though so it's not a total loss and I'm not neglected.
 
I have read this issue in different posts. I guess, it deserves an own thread

Are there keyholders that actively want to maintain his stamina?
I admit, I do.

We are at monthly releases. In between I edge him often and intense and we both concentrate on how he responds and give him the ability to control his body.
I want him and me to orgasm in sync occasionally.
If he thinks, he get's too advanced in arousal, he interrupts PIV and goes down on me for a moment.
Finally coming together is great bonding.

What do you think about it?
This should be every man's go to. It helps me to maintain my erection and last longer. In the event that I do cum before my wife, going down on her gets me erect quickly, this allows for round 2.