MrsLocknKey Domestically Dominates Denied_One

[denied_one]

i just walked around the market picking things up, in full submission mode.

It was terrible.

Going back and forth in my brain. Alternately, convincing myself that THIS is the best way after all. For the both of us. And "talking myself out of it" in a pouting type of mentality.

Had I walked around the market in full surrender mode, the trip would have been much nicer and enjoyable.

Noted for next time...

 

[denied_one]

Rough couple days...this $H!t sucks sometimes

 

[John&Ann]

Rough couple days...this $H!t sucks sometimes

I am currently right there with you at the moment. Wanting what I can't have while knowing if I did get it, I don't want to start over at the same time even though I do want to start over LOL Does that make sense at all?

 

[denied_one]

I am currently right there with you at the moment. Wanting what I can't have while knowing if I did get it, I don't want to start over at the same time even though I do want to start over LOL Does that make sense at all?

Yes...lol it's the roller coaster.

It feels good to know someone is right there climbing the walls with me.

Ive been rewired to not masturbate but it doesn't get any easier alot of times...

 

[denied_one]

Not a happy camper today lol oh well

 

[denied_one]

Hanging in there

 

[denied_one]

*deeeeep relaxed sigh*

i am deeply leaning into surrender and it feels so liberating from my own thoughts and little desires

 

[denied_one]

Here are my thoughts...

Surrender is greater than submission

Surrender>submission

The idea of submission in and of itself is a "forced" word. It gives picture of gritted teeth and "getting through it" it's "writhing against your bonds" ultimately submitting to your bond or situation.

The idea of submission is a strained acceptance of that which is happening, that you have finally come to know and submit to.

It's an image of one thinking "there is better" but I will do "this thing" instead

It's full of angst and "fight or flight"

Ah but Surrender

The simple laying down and admitting that "this way" is not only the best way, but it was the best way from the start it just wasn't clearly evident.

What began (for us) as something "fun to do" ended up becoming an actual lifestyle.

We have tried to "walk away" from the cage. We always end up right back.

@MrsLockNkey deserves the absolute BEST version of "Me"

That version of "Me" simply cannot cum on a regular basis...at all...i fully Surrender to that notion

I have diagnosed generalized anxiety disorder, so things have been a little rough going for me with the tease and denial, especially when my focus is on submission.

When i shift my focus to Surrender not only do I feel like a much stronger husband. But it feels much easier to accept the reality that instead of "rubbing one out" or "taking matters into my own hands" no matter the mood of my Wife, or whether She is pissed or irritated or just "not in the mood", that She is the sole provider of my pleasure.

Surrender focuses me on Her

Submission focuses me on me

Surrender means my dick doesn't matter

Submission means I want it to matter

@Goddess Jade @Jay Sub - I've been thinking about this a lot

This was really really good for me to re-read. Wow...will continue to pull this up and read it as needed.

 

[denied_one]

Oooh it is an absolute treat & delight to be able to come home for lunch from work!

i was quite the "good boy" and made @MrsLockNkey cum 5 times

 

[denied_one]

.....aaaaand another 6 for the absolutely lovely and orgasmic @MrsLockNkey

11 on the day

Not a bad outing by ole' @denied_one

 

[MrsLockNkey]

Oooh it is an absolute treat & delight to be able to come home for lunch from work!

i was quite the "good boy" and made @MrsLockNkey cum 5 times

Mmmhmm you were and very good boy! Let's keep it going

 

[MrsLockNkey]

.....aaaaand another 6 for the absolutely lovely and orgasmic @MrsLockNkey

11 on the day

Not a bad outing by ole' @denied_one

It was amazing! I love you

 

[denied_one]

It was amazing! I love you

I love you and love being denied by you!

 

[PornAddict103]

I just got caught up here... Was away for a whole week because I was blacked out from a storm. I'm back now and looking forward to reading more updates while having my coffee in the morning.

 

[denied_one]

I just got caught up here... Was away for a whole week because I was blacked out from a storm. I'm back now and looking forward to reading more updates while having my coffee in the morning.

Oh wow glad you have power back on and are safe!

 

[denied_one]

We just picked this cage up, seems like a great entry into kink3d, especially if they A. Are not knock offs or B. If they are, but they are fairly good representation of the actual Kink3d Nano

Cobra Nub Clear | Tiny Cock Cage | Chastity Cages Co

The clear Cobra Nub is a tiny resin cock cage designed as a mesh to be breathable and comfortable for long time with 4 different rings included in the pack. 2-Day shipping available in the USA.

chastitycages.co

 

[denied_one]

*nub rather

 

[PornAddict103]

We just picked this cage up, seems like a great entry into kink3d, especially if they A. Are not knock offs or B. If they are, but they are fairly good representation of the actual Kink3d Nano

Cobra Nub Clear | Tiny Cock Cage | Chastity Cages Co

The clear Cobra Nub is a tiny resin cock cage designed as a mesh to be breathable and comfortable for long time with 4 different rings included in the pack. 2-Day shipping available in the USA.

chastitycages.co

Another friend of mine here in Chastity Mansion uses something like that and he had nothing but good things to say about it.

 

[Woodys Locked Up]

We just picked this cage up, seems like a great entry into kink3d, especially if they A. Are not knock offs or B. If they are, but they are fairly good representation of the actual Kink3d Nano

Cobra Nub Clear | Tiny Cock Cage | Chastity Cages Co

The clear Cobra Nub is a tiny resin cock cage designed as a mesh to be breathable and comfortable for long time with 4 different rings included in the pack. 2-Day shipping available in the USA.

chastitycages.co

Interesting! I've been wearing this stainless steel cage very similar in size and shape for the last few weeks.

 

[denied_one]

Interesting! I've been wearing this stainless steel cage very similar in size and shape for the last few weeks.

Thanks for that! I also just grabbed this as well

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0C7M66HVG?ref=ppx_pt2_mob_b_prod_image

 

[Jay Sub]

The one in my profile I wear is very similar.

 

[Woodys Locked Up]

The one in my profile I wear is very similar.

That looks like the one I have except I'm using a round base ring so I can fit a Ternence anti-slip ring between the ring and the cage.

The cage is frustratingly snug. Feels good when you first put it on. But the first time your body is aroused, it can't go anywhere with it because there is no room whatsoever. The weight of the stainless steel accentuates that feeling of complete entrapment. And the anti-slip ring locks everything in place from that point to the tip. "Sorry buddy! You're not going ANYWHERE!"

 

[Woodys Locked Up]

Thanks for that! I also just grabbed this as well

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0C7M66HVG?ref=ppx_pt2_mob_b_prod_image

I bought that one as well. It doesn't fit as snug. It's difficult if not impossible to get the glans fully into the tip of the cage. And then the lower cross bar is right in front of my urethral opening making peeing very difficult & messy.

The smaller cage opening lines up perfectly. I can pee in a urinal without issue.

 

[PornAddict103]

And the anti-slip ring locks everything in place from that point to the tip. "Sorry buddy! You're not going ANYWHERE!"

Do you have a photo of the anti-slip ring?

 

[Woodys Locked Up]

Do you have a photo of the anti-slip ring?

https://www.amazon.com/dp/B08NZ619B7

They make two... this is the 35mm. They also make at 31mm.

These are very siimilar to the anti-slip rings in the Vice. I found the 35mm to be about the same size as the medium ring in the Vice which works for me. But the Ternence seems to feel tighter, possibly because of the metal. I used a file to open it up a little more and get a better fit.