I think you're going too small but we're all different. Majority of it at least for me was just pushing through. Yeah I slept like crap a few weeks but now it's a non issue 99% of time.
My Little Cock Restraint cage
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We're totally different... I'm a grower and you're not. Our bodies function in a totally different way so we can't compare ourselves to each other. You're basically trying to compare a 2-seater sports car with a V-12 engine to an all-terrain truck with a diesel engine. LOL!
See what qualifies a grower though. Honest question. I'm close to 4 soft and just at 7 hard. I like cramming in a cage little bit but not by inches.
That's not a grower... We growers are typically around and inch (in some cases, even shorter) when we are totally soft and when we get erect, we go out anywhere between 5" and 7". My flaccid length is just under an inch and my erection is usually between 5.75" and 6". That's a grower. And when we start expanding, even a partial erection is extremely difficult to contain, which is why we prefer not to expand at all when in chastity.
That's fair. I do still think sticking with whatever cage fits best for awhile and just pushing through would greatly help with the sleeping stuff.
Agreed... I'm gonna stay in my cage of shame since I know it works. And since I won't be swapping cages (or at least have no plans to) that will greatly reduce the risk of an accidental ruined orgasm during my lockups.
By the sounds of it, it's the constant friction / pressure of the ring itself pushing on the skin, I had the same issue ever since I started playing with Chastity. I genuinely recommend putting Vaseline on the balls where it would be in contact of the ring.
I use "Vaseline Intensive Care Cocoa Radiant Body Oil" a 200ml bottle which has lasted me for a very long time! I'm still using the same bottle and it's been over 2 years now!
Fitting it in your after shower routine is what I recommend. After you finish drying yourself, put just a small amount around the balls where the ring would be, you don't have to use a lot! It should last you 24 hours until you shower again.
I also recommend buying a belt that clips onto the chastity and keeping the cage close to your body.
No, that's not it... My night time erections are so powerful that total confinement will make the cage pull on my balls and they'll feel like they're getting ripped off of my body. I don't have that problem with my Cage of shame because there's a small gap out in front that my cock head can poke through, but that only happens at night and not during arousal. I'm a grower, so my ratio of flaccid to fully erect is off the charts.
Fair man, I can only comment from my experience. I am also a grower in a small cage and the night time erections were hell on earth only during the nights... the Vaseline allows the ring to travel more instead of remaining stuck on one section of the balls where with enough time (7 hours of sleep) and pressure (night time erections) it can almost feel like stinging burning pain where the ring is in contact with the skin.
I'd say it's worth a go, but you do you
