New Year resolution.

valsboy

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I sent this not so subtle text message:

Would you like someone to reduce their smoking habit? Could you take control with a firm guiding hand? Could you impose a regulated program of withdrawal with encouragements and disincentives? Would you take pleasure in 'helping' someone? Sometimes someone needs your help and guidance to take the first steps . Sound like a challenge you could handle? Change someone's world for the better. X

- now it seems I am to be cutting down a lot in the over the New Year!
 
Congratulations on that!

Now my only concern is that I do not know to who you sent that message, because ie my father or your dear cousin probably wouldn't make a fuss about it :-))

But.. If you -as I assume- sent the message to your mistress, you could turn it around as in: "Would it change your world to the better if I quit smoking with your guidance?"

Good luck, my friend..
 
RubberDuck,

You assume correctly, I did indeed send this message to Duchess. I did not need to turn it around as she fully understood its implications. We are now working on a program of withdrawal for the New Year. So far, I am trying to keep a diary of my smoking habit, which she will use to fine tune her initial plan.

Many thanks for your encouragement!
 
valsboy said:
I sent this not so subtle text message:

Could you take control with a firm guiding hand? Could you impose a regulated program of withdrawal with encouragements and disincentives? Would you take pleasure in 'helping' someone? Sometimes someone needs your help and guidance to take the first steps . Sound like a challenge you could handle? Change someone's world for the better. X

- now it seems I am to be cutting down a lot in the over the New Year!

Other than the smoking, which is not my thing, this sound like my Wife:

takes control; firm guiding hand, regulated program of encouragments and disincentives, pleasure in training me or helping me; etc.
 
Good luck, but do keep a touch of reality here. Smokeing induces definite physiological needs. The body does react, and not nicely, to the lack of nicotine.

So while I say go for it, do think about the all aides that are medically available and also watch it that this doesn't overcome the other parts of your Mistress's control over you.

It can, and I have seen in other relationships, that this became the "straw the broke the camels back" as far as a relationship went.

Sancho, my helmet my horse :character0109:

Good Luck!

Fantasy Mstr

valsboy said:
I sent this not so subtle text message:

Would you like someone to reduce their smoking habit? Could you take control with a firm guiding hand? Could you impose a regulated program of withdrawal with encouragements and disincentives? Would you take pleasure in 'helping' someone? Sometimes someone needs your help and guidance to take the first steps . Sound like a challenge you could handle? Change someone's world for the better. X

- now it seems I am to be cutting down a lot in the over the New Year!
 
The Initial Response

Duchess got back to me very quickly with this in an email. We've agreed it is rather harsh as I want only to cut down, and chilli sauce!

So once I've compiled a decent smoking diary, a new plan will be worked out.


Stopping Smoking

Wk One
1 *Morning Cigarette
1 * Every Two Hours
Last one two be taken no later than 9 oclock
Suck on plastic one when the urge requires.

Wk Two
1 * Morning
1 * Every 3 Hours
Last one to be taken no later than 9 oclock
Suck on plastic one when the urge requires.

Wk Three
1 * Morning
1 * Lunch Time
Last one to be taken no later than 9 oclock
Suck on plastic one when the urge requires.

Wk Four
1 * Morning
Last one to be taken no later than 9 oclock
Suck on plastic one when the urge requires.

Wk Five
One to be taken no later than 9 oclock
Suck on plastic one when the urge requires.

Wk Six
Suck on plastic one only Four Times a day

Wk Seven
Suck on plastic once Morning and once at night,

Wk Eight
Only Suck on Plastic Once before Bed

Wk Nine
Try not to suck on plastic all day .

Treats will be given on completion of a full week
If four weeks are completed you may released for a full night,
If you manage to quit completely At Wk Nine you may be released for a full wknd and have pleasures of your own choice.
If however you fail to comply you will be severely thrashed 10 times, and if you fail more than twice as well as a thrashing your cock will be dipped in chilli sauce for 10 mins .
 
I notice she didn't mention what plastic Item to suck on :smilies_xxx02:
 
Madamsboy: Your mind needs a good washout! :-)

FantMstr: Thanks again for your advice.

RubberDuck:

Now my only concern is that I do not know to who you sent that message, because ie my father or your dear cousin probably wouldn't make a fuss about it

If your father is receiving any messages intended for Duchess then please convey my deepest apologies to him. Also could you ask him to delete them as soon as possible! ;-)