I've been lurking around a while, but this is my first post. I'm a 50 year old, straight, single male. I've been interested in female domination for much of my life, but never had the courage to bring it up with a partner. In more recent years, I've developed a fascination with chastity devices and finally decided to get one to play with. I don't have a lot of disposable cash, so I ordered a super-cheap CB-6000 knockoff from eBay. Actually, it didn't even occur to me at the time that it would be a knockoff, even though it should have. It seems fairly well made, except for the guide pins not being permanently attached to the ring piece (I fixed that) and the rings all having grooves in them, but I figure that I can fill them in. Even the tube, which I've read sometimes splits fairly easily, seems pretty solid. I couldn't pull it apart, although admittedly I didn't put superhuman effort into trying to do so.
I chose the CB-6000 because it came with all the different sized rings and spacers. I figured that at least I'd be able to play with it and get an idea of what sizes would work for me.
Anyway, the main problem I'm having is that I can't seem to get my penis properly into the cage/tube. Call me naive, but out of all the possible issues I thought I might have with a chastity device, I never expected that just getting into it would be the biggest problem. I'm not especially well endowed and I've seen photos of guys bigger than me wearing various CB-6000 models, so if they can do it, I should be able to. So far, this has been the biggest disappointment for me.
As I'm sure you all know, just sliding it on, even with lube, doesn't work. I then tried using two strings with slipknots in the end, looped around just behind the head, one below and one above. I pulled it taunt and the cage slipped right on. Unfortunately, stretching the penis out like this pretty much doubles its length, so even though the head was bumping against the end of the tube, half of it was still outside the cage. I was able to get everything locked, but it never felt right since there was a lot of skin bunched up behind the tube. For the curious, I left the tail strings on the knots long enough to stick out the end, so I could pull the loops free.
After looking online and reading about the stocking method, I decided to try that. I bought a pair of pantyhose at the dollar store and cut the legs off. I put the open end over my penis, threaded the other end through the tube, pulled and it slid completely into the tube and felt great. Then I pulled the stocking out and ended up with all the skin bunched up in the end of the tube around the head. This wasn't exactly the best feeling and I wasn't comfortable leaving it like that. Several more tries all gave me the same results.
Then I tried the method where you turn the stocking partially inside-out, pull the penis into the tube, then pull the outer layer and it slides against itself and the tube, neatly leaving you in place. At least that's the theory. For me, it had the same effect as the first method with the added negative that some of my skin ended up rolled up in the stocking so that by the time I got to the end, it was almost like the material had gone inside my penis and I was pulling it out. Ouch!
I tried holding my skin behind the tube as I pulled the material out, but that just felt like it was trying to rip my skin off, since it wanted to go forward with the stocking. I also tried pulling the skin back after getting the stocking out, but that just pulled it half out of the tube.
What am I doing wrong? Should I have bought higher-quality stockings or a particular type? Is there something else I need to do to make the second method work better?
I would assume that the proper way to wear it is with the penis fully inside the tube (yes, mine should fit, in fact I also bought a knockoff 6000s and it looks like it should pretty much fit that one!) so that the back end of the tube is right down to the base of the shaft, and with the skin resting in its natural state, rather than being bunched up. I just don't know how to make that happen. It's like that with the stocking on it, then I pull it off and everything gets messed up.
I know I'm using a cheap knockoff and not one of the higher-quality genuine ones, but as the dimensions are the same, I'd probably have the same problems with a genuine CB-6000 as well.
I'm open to advice.
I chose the CB-6000 because it came with all the different sized rings and spacers. I figured that at least I'd be able to play with it and get an idea of what sizes would work for me.
Anyway, the main problem I'm having is that I can't seem to get my penis properly into the cage/tube. Call me naive, but out of all the possible issues I thought I might have with a chastity device, I never expected that just getting into it would be the biggest problem. I'm not especially well endowed and I've seen photos of guys bigger than me wearing various CB-6000 models, so if they can do it, I should be able to. So far, this has been the biggest disappointment for me.
As I'm sure you all know, just sliding it on, even with lube, doesn't work. I then tried using two strings with slipknots in the end, looped around just behind the head, one below and one above. I pulled it taunt and the cage slipped right on. Unfortunately, stretching the penis out like this pretty much doubles its length, so even though the head was bumping against the end of the tube, half of it was still outside the cage. I was able to get everything locked, but it never felt right since there was a lot of skin bunched up behind the tube. For the curious, I left the tail strings on the knots long enough to stick out the end, so I could pull the loops free.
After looking online and reading about the stocking method, I decided to try that. I bought a pair of pantyhose at the dollar store and cut the legs off. I put the open end over my penis, threaded the other end through the tube, pulled and it slid completely into the tube and felt great. Then I pulled the stocking out and ended up with all the skin bunched up in the end of the tube around the head. This wasn't exactly the best feeling and I wasn't comfortable leaving it like that. Several more tries all gave me the same results.
Then I tried the method where you turn the stocking partially inside-out, pull the penis into the tube, then pull the outer layer and it slides against itself and the tube, neatly leaving you in place. At least that's the theory. For me, it had the same effect as the first method with the added negative that some of my skin ended up rolled up in the stocking so that by the time I got to the end, it was almost like the material had gone inside my penis and I was pulling it out. Ouch!
I tried holding my skin behind the tube as I pulled the material out, but that just felt like it was trying to rip my skin off, since it wanted to go forward with the stocking. I also tried pulling the skin back after getting the stocking out, but that just pulled it half out of the tube.
What am I doing wrong? Should I have bought higher-quality stockings or a particular type? Is there something else I need to do to make the second method work better?
I would assume that the proper way to wear it is with the penis fully inside the tube (yes, mine should fit, in fact I also bought a knockoff 6000s and it looks like it should pretty much fit that one!) so that the back end of the tube is right down to the base of the shaft, and with the skin resting in its natural state, rather than being bunched up. I just don't know how to make that happen. It's like that with the stocking on it, then I pull it off and everything gets messed up.
I know I'm using a cheap knockoff and not one of the higher-quality genuine ones, but as the dimensions are the same, I'd probably have the same problems with a genuine CB-6000 as well.
I'm open to advice.
