Another thread as well as others, have treated a man buying and wearing a cage without consulting their wife as a huge issue. I found that weirder than wearing a cage honestly. Why would it matter what kind of jewelry they put on their own penis on his own free time.
Granted, hiding something is different, but if it were me and wanted to wear one on my own, I would say “look what I bought, cool huh? Let me know if you want the keys”. She might have questions, it might lead to her understanding what makes him tick, or it could just lead to her shaking her head and thinking “whatever floats your boat”.
Frim some of the posts it feels like it’s some big secret or lie, why would it be considered that? I don’t check with her about the clothes I wear, my shoes, watch, necklace or any other piece of jewelry. If they aren’t expecting any participation from their partner, what business is it to them what he wears on his penis.
If however he hides it, or starts wearing it and demands her to start being his keyholder, I can see how it might be an issue.
So tell me, am I being too casual? maybe because I’m so used to it or because I’m a bit liberal when it comes to marriage and equality, but why does this seem like such a faux pas? Do spouses really need permission to wear something, or do something, that doesn’t concern the other? I’m all about transparency and telling a partner what’s going on and not hiding it, but it’s not permission it is notification.
Granted, hiding something is different, but if it were me and wanted to wear one on my own, I would say “look what I bought, cool huh? Let me know if you want the keys”. She might have questions, it might lead to her understanding what makes him tick, or it could just lead to her shaking her head and thinking “whatever floats your boat”.
Frim some of the posts it feels like it’s some big secret or lie, why would it be considered that? I don’t check with her about the clothes I wear, my shoes, watch, necklace or any other piece of jewelry. If they aren’t expecting any participation from their partner, what business is it to them what he wears on his penis.
If however he hides it, or starts wearing it and demands her to start being his keyholder, I can see how it might be an issue.
So tell me, am I being too casual? maybe because I’m so used to it or because I’m a bit liberal when it comes to marriage and equality, but why does this seem like such a faux pas? Do spouses really need permission to wear something, or do something, that doesn’t concern the other? I’m all about transparency and telling a partner what’s going on and not hiding it, but it’s not permission it is notification.