"Penis Free" marriage

[MicroDikAdam]

I've seen the term and concept of a pussy free marriage, but find that to be not very accurate to my situation and seeing if anyone else is more into the penis free life style. Here's what I mean:

My wife loves the fact she has no need to worry about my penis. But she also loves the intimacy and closeness of sex. So when she is in the mood to play (usually after a long foot massage and back scratching session), she'll get her vibrator out, I'll enjoy the view, and wait for her permission to use a toy or fingers to help get her off. After, we cuddle in bed, all the while my penis throbs locked away safely.

I still get to see it, play with it, taste it, and worship her pussy. So not "pussy free". The penis, however, is clearly not needed. Thus the term I feel best describes us.

 

[JaySaysYes]

Your thoughts are right, in my opinion, but I don't think the term is quite right as you are not penis free since it sits throbbing in the cage, yelling at you.

 

[cagedhubby-RD]

We have a very similar dynamic. I have not had PIV sex in a long, long time. But being locked I also have no pressure to perform. I love that fact myself. I cannot disappoint her this way since I never really lasted very long. With the cage I get to satisfy my wife in many other ways. But never with my cock. I don't think my wife even thinks about my cock anymore. She occasionally massages my balls. But my cock is out of the picture.

 

[MicroDikAdam]

Your thoughts are right, in my opinion, but I don't think the term is quite right as you are not penis free since it sits throbbing in the cage, yelling at you.

Thanks for the feedback! While it's true I still have it, it's the fact the wife has no desire for it. Pussy free wouldn't mean she has no vagina lol She has stated she could go the rest of her life without needing to feel my d inside her, but I couldn't go a day without at least imagining her. That's just my way of seeing it though!

 

[madams-sissysub]

Your thoughts are right, in my opinion, but I don't think the term is quite right as you are not penis free since it sits throbbing in the cage, yelling at you.

that’s a fair point!

 

[squier]

So you are neither pussy-free nor penis-free but PIV free

 

[Deleted member 37493]

I believe a penis free love life would describe my situation better and I hope this continues for the rest of our lives.

 

[LesterBallard]

Of the two original functions of my penis, only one is still in use.

 

[Spankuuuu]

I like that. “Penis Free”. I think I will start that saying around here. I think my Mistress will get a kick out of that. I haven’t had piv either in a very long time,but Mistress still plays with the balls and keeps me very horny. I still leak constantly.

 

[MicroDikAdam]

Went a year PIV free, and going to be longer this time. I'm glad to hear it works well for others so thanks for the feedback!

 

[Fatkid1]

We have a very similar dynamic. I have not had PIV sex in a long, long time. But being locked I also have no pressure to perform. I love that fact myself. I cannot disappoint her this way since I never really lasted very long. With the cage I get to satisfy my wife in many other ways. But never with my cock. I don't think my wife even thinks about my cock anymore. She occasionally massages my balls. But my cock is out of the picture.

Right there with you, almost exactly. It is a recent agreement, but we are actually 210 days in currently. It took a while for her to understand that it was a huge anxiety issue for me for something that she really didn't mind doing without.

 

[WillieBDenied]

I have had PIV 2 times in the last 5 years (I think there were two). All I get is teasing and denial. Mostly caged, but sometimes not. She likes the look and feel of a hard cock, especially one that hasn't had a release in months, but mostly she likes to see it locked back up, unsatisfied.

 

[Natasha1984]

PIV from a submissive male is generally not required. A well trained mouth and house servant is is generally what I am seeking. Although we don't cuckold in our marriage, I find the idea of being fucked by a man outside of our marriage, while my husband serves me in ways that I find more intimate completely arousing.

I believe sitting on a man's face, and using him to get off, to he the purest form of intimacy, especially whem he is caged.

 

[Rtarvey]

Sometimes I wish I was penis free the only attention It gets is teasing and a heavy beating when let out by the time PIV is involved it’s no good for the wearer only for the owner

 

[Lancerexford]

I take a very active part in her sex play, which involves her squeezing my balls as she comes. Then, sometimes, I'm told to jerk off. PIV is out. Can't remember the last time with her. So am I classified as penis free? Feels like it.

 

[CuriousAndy]

Oh I like that term "penis free". I had the same terminology dilemma, we're not pussy free, I spend a lot of time on her pussy

 

[LuckyCharms]

I think it's probably pretty common, but I'm still waiting for government funding to run that study....

We alternate between a lot of penis play and none. Depends on her mood, which I suppose is the point. I've never been able to get her off with PIV sex anyway, her strongest orgasms are from my fingers. At the stage I'm at now, I can barely get it inside her without having to stop and hold for fear of orgasm so it's pretty useless to her (and me) anyway.

 

[JaySaysYes]

Sometimes I wish I was penis free the only attention It gets is teasing and a heavy beating when let out by the time PIV is involved it’s no good for the wearer only for the owner

Really? Why wish into the wind when you can experience your wish so easily?

 

[this muppet]

Really? Why wish into the wind when you can experience your wish so easily?

You mean by cutting it off?

 

[Rtarvey]

Really? Why wish into the wind when you can experience your wish so easily?

Really? Why wish into the wind when you can experience your wish so easily?

I do thoroughly enjoy making her pussy dripping wet from beating my cock then using it for her enjoyment and locking it back up swollen and completely worn out. Dam my queen is the best, she knows how to do it right!!!

 

[Spankuuuu]

I think it's probably pretty common, but I'm still waiting for government funding to run that study....

We alternate between a lot of penis play and none. Depends on her mood, which I suppose is the point. I've never been able to get her off with PIV sex anyway, her strongest orgasms are from my fingers. At the stage I'm at now, I can barely get it inside her without having to stop and hold for fear of orgasm so it's pretty useless to her (and me) anyway.

I have the same issues. Mistress even has to watch how she plays with me being caged, I will pretty much orgasm immediately. So 99% of the time she is being highly pleasured by vibrators and soldiers, and/or oral. But Mistress never complains after getting her pleasure.

 

[BBCS2PA]

"Penis free" is the best description I have heard - NO PIV, never out and no use for it other than to pee and that can be done safely locked away....

Yes Penis free it is and likely to be for the rest of the time!

 

[OscartheTurtle]

Pussy-adjacent relationships. “Next to but not in.” Or penis-adjacent depending on the viewpoint.

 

[slave_boi_Phoenix]

It has noting to do with me personally, in my life I have had more vagina and penis than most to serve and be of service too. The penis is just something on my body I do not own, has never been lucky like me, and is for the most part sex free.

 

[Boypaul]

I believe sitting on a man's face, and using him to get off, to he the purest form of intimacy, especially whem he is caged.

Is how my wife likes it, and often.