Planning my last orgasm

samseaborne

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This is not a Wanker thread, not somewhere to get your rocks off.
I may be sorry I start this thread and may ask that it gets deleted if it gets out of hand.

I'm really looking for feedback from the females but I suspect everyone will join in.

2026 will be the 50th anniversary of the first time I had sex. I am on the road to permanent orgasm denial.
I have been locked on and off for over a decade and my KH and I have a tacit agreement that this year is it for me.

Assuming I have a say in the planning of my last orgasm I'd like some mindful ideas.

Before some of you get carried away, the following is off the table: Nothing to do with a 3rd party, no cuckolding, no threesomes. Its always been just us.
No sissy/feminization etc. We are both secure in our roles. No scat. No one is pooping on anyone else. No permanent damage, no one is cutting off an appendage.
Nothing in public.
Essentially everything else is on the table. I am fully functional, no ED etc.

Lord I know I'm going to regret this but thanks for your feedback. LOL
 
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I've actually put some thought into this for my own purposes. Personally I'd want head, piv then pull out for a facial one last time. Granted none of these will happen as she hates giving head, and despises facials.
 
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samseaborne said:
This is not a Wanker thread, not somewhere to get your rocks off.
I may be sorry I start this thread and may ask that it gets deleted if it gets out of hand.

I'm really looking for feedback from the females but I suspect everyone will join in.

2026 will be the 50th anniversary of the first time I had sex. I am on the road to permanent orgasm denial.
I have been locked on and off for over a decade and my KH and I have a tacit agreement that this year is it for me.

Assuming I have a say in the planning of my last orgasm I'd like some mindful ideas.

Before some of you get carried away, the following is off the table: Nothing to do with a 3rd party, no cuckolding, no threesomes. Its always been just us.
No sissy/feminization etc. We are both secure in our roles. No scat. No one is pooping on anyone else. No permanent damage, no one is cutting off an appendage.
Nothing in public.
Essentially everything else is on the table. I am fully functional, no ED etc.

Lord I know I'm going to regret this but thanks for your feedback. LOL
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I like the idea of edging by your partner several times through the day, then one final orgasm in an blow up sheep that you see on stage parties or something as humiliating, but that's just me
 
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I believe my wife and I are headed for the same destination. We’ve been playing around with chastity and orgasm control for years. We both in our late 50s and my wife simply believes our marriage is better when I don’t get orgasms. The kink aspects are intoxicating she says. PIV is over as a result of normal pain and discomfort she experiences. First it’s been orgasm control, then orgasm restrictions, then only ruined orgasms, then milking my prostate to maintain prostate health. That seems to be the gradual pattern. I’ve put this here so you have an idea of me, us. We’re not into other people being involved in our marriage or any weird play such as you mentioned either and would not include it now.

I do ask why this year seems to be it for you? None of my business of course, but if it does have similar reasons as our plans for me it makes me wonder if such reasons are somewhat universal. That’s why I ask.

That said, I would think something memorable should happen for the last orgasm you’re going to have. For me, I prefer an incredibly long edging session and then a final memorable orgasm.
Good luck
 
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I’ve accepted being masturbation and orgasm denied for the rest of my life now. What I’m struggling with is the elimination of even prostrate milkings at some point. It’s been almost a year now without any relief whatsoever, and my Goddess wife has said only three more left. At sixty five, I will never have any type of physical relief again. We made this decision together, but I can’t believe how hard it’s been without even a prostrate milking. We both hope that I will eventually have a wet dream or even a spontaneous ejaculation, because that will be my only chance of relief.
 
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What a scary thought I must admit, although I know for us all at some time there will be that last orgasm at some point.

I think for me I would like it to be with my partner as that is my favorite way to cum now is with her having PIV sex. Indeed it IS the only way I ever have a real orgasm these days is with her.

I cant think of anything that could make it more memorable other than knowing it was my last one. Id certainly make sure I had enough pills to make sure I had a rock hard erection. I think being reminded while taking it slow that it is my last one would amp it up.

Of course you will get more responses from your fellows here....but I too would be interested to hear a woman's perspective.
 
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Some interesting thoughts and observations offered so far. You might want to consider the psychological "fun" that can be had from never knowing - for certain - that you have had your last orgasm.
To explain: Your wife should confirm that at some point in the future (time unspecified) you will have your last orgasm. Then, she will completely withdraw from offering any sexual outlet to you. Definitely no more PIV, no more stimulation - but just the possibility that "maybe", just "maybe", something might be offered "one day".
This will leave you trapped. Not knowing if you have had that last orgasm, or whether there is the chance of "just one more". Your wife could offer some minor stimulation from time-to-time, just to "keep you interested", but never continuing to completion.
 
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For the last two years my GF has been adamant that I had my last orgasm, and it has been two years since I last ccame, but more recently she says she wants to explore us cumming together while making love.

As for ideas; If I was your KH I'd say that if you can't think of a way to have your last orgasm and need to resort to asking randomers on the internet, then you have already done it. The last one was the last one :p

Nothing last forever, though, including orgasm denial.
 
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JaySaysYes said:
For the last two years my GF has been adamant that I had my last orgasm, and it has been two years since I last ccame, but more recently she says she wants to explore us cumming together while making love.

As for ideas; If I was your KH I'd say that if you can't think of a way to have your last orgasm and need to resort to asking randomers on the internet, then you have already done it. The last one was the last one :p

Nothing last forever, though, including orgasm denial.
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It 's a great idea from your GF. My Wife manages my orgasms carefully. I feel as much loved when She denies me as when She allows me to orgasm together.
 
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Here’s what really sucks, the anticipation of it being your last mind blowing cum is going to be so much more exciting than the 6-8 seconds of the actual orgasm, and then the weight of your new orgasmless reality will hit like a ton of bricks 😳
I wish you luck, I hope my Wife never decides to end all orgasms for me!
 
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She went from most likely never again, you had your last cage free without knowing. To now I'll get one a year on anniversary of my last one from now on. So last and never are strong words. Question is after a year will I even want one. Probably forget what it even feels like by then.
 
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enslavedbyc said:
Sorry, can’t even send my imagination there. I’m just going to continue to enjoy great sex and orgasms. I’ve had some of the best sex of my life in my 60s. Chastity is great but I hate long term denial fortunately she hates it too.
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Ooo "fun take!" What's your normal chastity session length "look like"
 
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My wife uses orgasm control to make me a better lover and it has worked. Jerking off caused me to satisfy myself and leave her hanging for when I got an interest. The cage has stopped that and not knowing when she will let me out has got me focused on her pleasure and then a reward for me. I average a 7-14 day lock-up and during the week we have a habit of a soak in the hot tub every other night and it usually leads to her sitting in the shelf and me between her legs pleasing her. If I do well, on the weekend soak she lets me out and I get to orgasm.

If our schedule causes us to miss out on a weekday nightly session, then I end up skipping a weekend release. Sometimes I will have hit the target during the week and will get a milking or a caged vibrator orgasm as a reward.

Now this time of year we observe Lent, so its 40 nights of no orgasm for me, but lots for her.
 
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Ooo "fun take!" What's your normal chastity session length "look like"
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I am not 24/7/365 in chastity. I am in Bondage 24/7365. Chastity is my only bondage during the majority of the week. She lets me out of chastity twice a week on average for play. Mid-week is likely to be a short session focused on me, the bondage will be inescapable but the position is usually not that stressful. On the weekend I’m likely to be in significantly more stringent bondage. My distress over the hours have a close relationship with pleasure she takes in it. This will likely at some point result in my device being removed for a delightful orgasm. So yes, I’m out of my device usually for a couple hours a week (while enjoying or not) some other form of bondage. Life is good!
 
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enslavedbyc said:
Sorry, can’t even send my imagination there. I’m just going to continue to enjoy great sex and orgasms. I’ve had some of the best sex of my life in my 60s. Chastity is great but I hate long term denial fortunately she hates it too.
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A voice of reason, thanks.. I also cannot see the attraction of the "never again" idea and I don't understand why it is seen by many as the ultimate thing to aim for.

Could someone please explain it and help me to understand?
 
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Mojoman said:
A voice of reason, thanks.. I also cannot see the attraction of the "never again" idea and I don't understand why it is seen by many as the ultimate thing to aim for.

Could someone please explain it and help me to understand?
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key to a husband in chastity's long term mood elevation - his increased feelings of happiness and satisfaction, is that although his dopamine levels are continuously being raised above normal for the months in between orgasms, without orgasm he never triggers the surge in prolactin that lowers dopamine levels. Throughout the day, every day he is in chastity, aware that he has turned over control of his orgasm to his wife, his dopamine level stays elevated. During sexual play and intimacy, when he is teased and denied, particularly when teased to just short or orgasm, his dopamine level is boosted without triggering the corresponding, counterweight of prolactin to defeat it. Making love to his wife and bringing her to orgasm is incredibly arousing for him, boosting his dopamine levels with no subsequent sudden drop of dopamine level for him because he doesn’t orgasm himself.
 
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