Quick update: today we were both home without the kids and she called out to me from the bedroom. She’d had a shower and was naked when I walked in. I started fondling her boobs, hugging her and eventually rubbing between her legs. I stripped but didn’t have an erection but got her to lie down on the bed and started kissing her pussy. I mentioned something about “what if I can’t get hard?” And she said not to worry, that she was enjoying what I was doing.
I ended up licking her for about 15-20mins, she was so wet and was playing with her own nipples. I fingered her with two fingers, quite deep while also licking her clit and she had a large orgasm. Afterwards we lay there cuddling naked and spoke. I apologised that I couldn’t get hard but she said she enjoyed what had happened. She asked me if there was anything different I wanted from her and I said that I still think about “those same things” meaning chastity and domination, but added that I know how she felt about that.
She said that she doesn’t love it but also said she wants me to be happy so not to rule anything out. We also spoke about how she wasn’t deliberately not wanting sex but how its hard with three busy kids to make time for each other but she wants to make that a priority.
I think it will be a slow journey but that’s a massively positive update - a) to be able to enjoy eating her pussy again and doing so in a way that gave her great pleasure and b) to have the concept of her taking some control back on the table.
She also mentioned that she was wanted to get her pussy lasered as she was sick of going to the waxer. I happily agreed to her doing that and said I’d work extra hard to get the money for it.
Fingers crossed
