Kids back to school, wife (and I) back to work, wrong part of calendar...she had said we would "play" today but lets face it she won't want to and I should not hint that we should. So this is the interesting part. Just give her space today is probably the right move and let her come back to me. She always does in some way. I started getting the impression yesterday she was a little worn out on the "locked talk" though she did bring it up when she fumbled a tv sports show I wanted to watch and I just said "no big deal hun" she was like "wow, you are really sweet when you are locked" and she kind of tapped inside my thigh. I know that the next time we mess around, this will be the first time ever she has tons of conflict about letting me orgasm...can't wait to see how it resolves. Just enjoying the ride...helps to have a place to write...take care... -wec