Does anyone have a set of written rules made by their key holder they have to follow… ie. you must ask permission to kiss her or to touch her breast , you must sit with her in the family room at night and watch what she wants to , etc? I am looking for other rules one has to follow for their key holder.
Cage stays on until she wants it off Zero orgasms Since I am a reasonable human I already share chores, shopping, cooking, etc. so I don't need anything spelled out to me like I am a reluctant teenager. So far that seems to be working.
@MistressAMA and i have a few daily rules, mostly around service, but a few more on the kinky side. I like the ritual of these as a way to stay in my submissive mindset. I have to have Her coffee ready by the time She comes downstairs i make the bed every day i send Her a daily report that varies by day. Today, it's the number of times She and i have climaxed so far this year (42, 0) i send Her short texts/sexts at 9am, 12pm and 3pm while at work Sometime during the day, i need to massage Her feet, kiss Her feet and ass, and request a maintenance spanking At the end of the day, i need to make sure all the dishes are done or in the dishwasher I need to ask permission to enter Her bed We also have unwritten rules that i'm caged unless She gives permission to get out and NEVER climax without Her direction. Fun stuff! asa
same here! We used to have a whole list of written rules when we first stated our bdsm lifestyle, but soon changed.
We have a signed contract. She has a set of rules i must follow. I do not have a scheduled release, it is totally her discretion. Here is a copy of our contract.