Sensual longing

[Nostromo]

i just passed the 10 day locked mark after having been unlocked for about a month due to a lot of air travel. I have noticed, the past couple of days when I have been sleeping in because of the US Thanksgiving holiday, that I end up lying in bed, a little swollen in my cage, and savoring the feeling of just being aroused without being able to do anything about it. That sort of languid arousal is so nice.... I find myself thinking that it is better than an orgasm. I am not transgender or into cross-dressing like many here are, but I do have a sense that this sort of arousal is as close as a male can get to experiencing arousal in the less genitally focused way that women describe. I can certainly understand the connection between chastity and those of you who feel, or want to feel, female.

 

[Guest 8391]

I too love the feeling of having my cock get hard, only to be confined by the cage. It is an addictive feeling. I sleep better without the nightly erections. I use a 39 mm base ring which fits snugly and is hard to escape from. Not that I try to.

 

[Eliza]

You described it perfectly @Nostromo . That's exactly how I feel! And after knowing and exploring this feeling further, you will see that you begin to hate your orgasms while at the same time you want one. That's a wierd feeling. Decoupling arousal, horniness and sensuality from orgasms is hard but toally worth it.

And who knows... maybe it leads you to start exploring your feminine side?

 

[jemima]

yes i like as well and you never gets feeling down cos you don't has a spurty no more.

 

[Nostromo]

I do have a feminine side, @Eliza ... it's just more about being pegged than dressing up Different non-strokes for different folks!

 

[Vinny]

After a few years of this I enjoy the anticipation of an orgasm more than orgasm itself. Without the feeling of constant arousal I feel bored and lack energy. My wife loves that she does not have to give me orgasms and sex is all about her for a change. I do have to insist on at least two orgasms a year because she does not need my penis for anything.